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341168 2010 年 11 月 12 日 09:36 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (0) Category: Personal Diary
What is the secret of happiness
under general dictionary definition of happiness most are: a sense of satisfaction and happiness. German philosopher Kant said: \Indeed, happiness is a good situation, that is not bad or painful things there, do you think people in and around the world all came good. How can you get it?
one, take the initiative to search, intention to pursue to get
pursuit of happiness of the Road, has a premise: that is not readily available to understand the joy. It is neither a gift, not a right; you have to take the initiative to look for, strive to be. When you realize that they can not just sit there waiting for happiness comes when you are already on the road in the pursuit of happiness has taken a big step. How? Do not feel bad, right? First do music, so after you finish the other nine steps, and you will be able to reach the true state of happiness.
Second, the expansion of areas of life, try new things
When you try new activities and accept new challenges, because you will find many aspects of life, a new and pleasantly surprised.
learning new skills, explore new ways,
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Many people think that they should wait for an appropriate time to explore ways to secure future. This idea is too conservative, because the right time may never come. Any person of life are not well designed, there is no error in the computer program, so there should be prepared to meet the challenge of courage.
three things are not all the world is only one answer
many ways to the pursuit of happiness, not just only you go the the one identified. Most people tend to think they can only be successful in this life as a working, play a role, even if you can not get that or do this, their never happy, this idea would be too narrow. While the pain can not achieve their goals, but this does not mean you and happy ever since insulation, unless you want to think so.
of things should adopt a flexible attitude, not stubborn, remember things are not necessarily any better there is only one. Of course, this is not to give you the practical, feasible, Holy Grail, but encourage you to go all out to make dreams come true.
Fourth, the courage to pursue dreams and hopes
Shaw a famous saying: \, because the course of the struggle and achieve their goals, as joy to be able to engender. You must have the courage wanted to be a famous doctor, star, an outstanding scientist or writer ... ... and so on, but to go all out, toward the ideal.
course, you dream to be reasonable and feasible, not ambitious, empty dreams of stardom to do. For example, you born with a crow voice, \If the dream is within reach of the mortal; that also there is a heaven doing? ! \
five, only with their ratio, and others do not climb
After
from our ignorance, we feel the \Young people everywhere want to perform well so, thinking that they have to be perfect, others will accept yourself, love yourself. If they find themselves as people everywhere, it begins to hurt, inferiority, the result of course is no fun at all.
so you should use their own when the measurable criteria, think about the original wrong start there? Any progress today? If you really have to do a force, I believe we will be better today than yesterday and tomorrow better than today.
six, caring people around, things
If you for some people, and things are concerned, you view of life will be greatly improved. If you only live for themselves, I believe your life will become very narrow, always been limited. Self-centered people may continue to progress, but it is always difficult to feel satisfied.
then you should care about? Concerned with who? Open your eyes think, while we ordinary, at least you can help children to school and obsessed with the book for the patient to the nursing home not doing anything, even clean up the environment ... .... Only pay a little bit, you'll be happy. Psychologist Eric Johnson once said: \There is no fun in life.
seven, do not be too confident, not without confidence.
over-optimistic people always think they will be able to achieve all the goals along the way by ignoring evil, people always think that the extreme pessimism little hope of success, afraid to move forward. The two people lose a lot of opportunities.
selected target, an objective attitude, judge to be practical, not too sure,
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eight,
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You may be busy from morning till night
that this busy, wildly round and round like a clock. But when you stop to think a moment, it will not feel uncomfortable, not satisfied with that? Many people are afraid to face the emptiness to fill the time with a lot of chores,
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doing all your lists to see which can be deleted, so you can set aside some free time, take it easy. Leisure and luxury, like one thing, can make you feel satisfied.
IX can be a bit thick skinned
According to expert research, giving the impression that one of the characteristics that do not meet too much care about other people's criticism, in other words, a little thick skin. Do not yield a result of external upstream. Do not let someone's sarcastic comments on the sad angry, thinking that by the great self-harm. But you'd be calmly reflect on the criticism if the others are correct, you should improve up. If the criticism is unfair, why not laugh at it? ! Perhaps the beginning, you can not quite grasp the countermeasures to cope with criticism,
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happy people drinking water taste, vary. Things that make people happy does not necessarily make you happy. Only you know how to pursue happiness. But remember: Do not sit back and wait to sniff! Happiness is only the cunning rabbit, you can put to heart to pursue to get ah!
+, happiness is not no worries
everyone has troubles, but not everyone is unhappy. Happiness is not dependent on wealth, some people had very little money, but as happy. Also some personal family rich, but not necessarily all day smiling. Can people all his life to be happy, happy life?
the United States, Dr. Schuler, in his new book, \
each person if you know the following eight tips naturally have a happy life.
1. No one is perfect. Must acknowledge their own weaknesses, and willing to accept the advice of others, help and advice, as long as you were willing to admit they need help, success inevitably in sight.
2. Learn from the setback. Failures or setbacks in the face of the attitude of the hold should be learned from experience, to continue efforts.
3. Must be honest and full of life, sense of justice, in order to attract good friend to help you. Badas once asked the famous psychologist: \psychologist's point of view, a good man is always happy.
4. Resilient. Whether in good times or adversity, our attitude should be the stride. With the error,
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5. Help others. If you are truly happy that he respected, should be to help others, and harmonious relations with others.
6. Dignitaries to be Hello, you have to others better. When you are being treated unfairly, you have forgiveness and compassion for others.
7. Keep the faith. When you do anything, you must adhere to personal belief.
8. Happy heart forever. Just observe cheerful, happy is very difficult to give up your