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Reprinted from 44089286 at 20:19 on August 17, 2010 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (5) Category: Kinji Share
I am 31 years old to get married, and now doing great. Diving in the horizon for many years, saw a lot of tragic stories of sisters, and he is very experienced several paragraphs of painful feelings. Now, their families and loved ones get along very well. I think I was still feeling some experience can give way to explore the sisters learn from them. What I do not want to boast of their better life, but I think we need to learn from their mistakes grow, must not own a pit Yishuai fell a further fall. Hope that these experiences and sisters in love and marriage need them.
1. most important, the girls still have to try to make yourself some good, from the capacity to face.
Taiwan's famous advertisements: the most beautiful woman seriously. Everyone has the right to choose their own lifestyle, but it must be serious, to oneself, to work, for life, such women, if not natural beauty, but also has a quiet confidence in the U.S., the only way and time to fight a US- also appreciate the type of man is good. Men who play the final play of life will also be playing.
may not work very well a lot of sisters who can pick up was clean and refreshing themselves, but also a great advantage. Anyway, the reality of man or the first easy to judge by appearances, not only love a man so beautiful woman, woman for the clean and fresh, most men have a favorable impression.
2. a good man, have their own requirements, the woman did not ask.
muddling along all the work himself, but then his girlfriend has many requirements of men, or kept at a distance better. This man, married men to become the highest probability poison tongue. Our sister is married and is at least required to respect their husbands,
梦想成真 - Qzone日志, that they have the right to call his wife to drink the man is not a good marriage.
3. married to see the main character, character.
similar personality,
coach wallet, similar outlook on life, money, marriage and life view is the best protection. Different personalities, two people do all Shuibu Lai, even if the world recognized as golden couple,
coach purses, born of a couple is not married, after all, most of the time of your life is to spend with him, and Lengnuanzizhi.
4. the beginning that not good enough for your man and he will always be good enough for you.
some good girls,
求――证书 - Qzone日志, always ran into some men appear to share the potential, you change yourself for him, to pay all, he said, you are too good for him, he's (education, money,
Little Penguin - Qzone log, ability , status, appearance, etc.) not good enough for you. Me a lot of examples of sisters, there is no self-confidence, give way to contact you only by the men, later on you will not good, you will only make him more self-esteem well.
5. entrusted lifetime ago, to see his family.
not see how much money his family, is to look at his house the family is not family harmony, concern for comity. A family of a man playing a woman, there is still indifferent, pretended family, and they will not control your life and death. Every family has its shortcomings, to ask what the attitude of his boyfriend, a man blind blind loyalty, to respect his wife's heart is limited.
6. of their manpower, manpower is also a man of his girlfriend is not fun. Their Shousong, the men of a certain selfish girlfriend of manpower is the most unable to marry.
money is the best a man can see the essence and feeling things. Sisters, love is not about money, but if he makes you feel right on the money, he is not on the right think about you. In love, normal consumption should be, clear to AA meeting began by saying the man is too good at calculating, too afraid of a disadvantage. Marriage in the future, there are many people at the expense of local needs, such men will be the first to run away.
7. hit man can not be, be sure to break up a fight. Macho, always maintain many candidates can not be a man, one must be found to break up. Old saying, when to shut the anti-troubled.
8. love girls have their own bottom line.
must not for love of him to give up their dignity, an insult to their parents, abandon their work. Good romance, marriage must be a win-win situation, not unilateral sacrifices and done.
9. to their favorite man, must be brave chase.
unrequited love is the hardest and most did not result.
10. then say so.
have any idea, say it, do not let men guess, to communicate, your life will be more happy. Can not communicate that you do not guarantee happiness. I think his girlfriend did not mind a man is a guess for the music. For this reason, lost a good man, really a pity.
11. do not start to form in front of men do virtuous.
if he is to pay your peace of mind, but not a return,
coach shoes, he has suspected of machismo. If you're a long time, and my heart at ease, do no good as before, he would be injured, will think you lied to him or you do not love him. Better than the beginning, there measured the affection and give him an opportunity to show, let him do something for you. To be honest, what they pay men more profound impression. He more you do, pay more, he is the more you yearn, the less open. Instead, you pay,
coach handbags, and he did not feel he was more access. In marriage, often do chores, and often take care of the children of men to give up the possibility of marriage is much lower, it is precisely because the home is created by his hard, he could not bear to give up. Many efforts to reach the most cruel man has a virtuous, selfless woman in silence to pay. I finally determined to marry her boyfriend, because he and I said: I worry about you, I always fear you live well, or come across, as long as one does not see you, I am very worried about you . His pay and I'm grateful that we both get along the best model.
12. When the break is off.
all make mistakes possible, but if the same mistake again, that is, they have a problem. A lot of sisters because The bear and a man who does not treat their own lives together, the last injured, or their own. One of my friends and I said: the things in this world, not static, it either get better or worse, in short, not the same. This sentence led me directly to some bad feelings out. Because, I know, if you want to change that relationship will only get worse, then I will be more hurt by too. My courage is doing well I am now the most solid foundation.
13. for love and love, not for a wedding or a beautiful dream of life and love of luxury.
are required to pay the price of all happiness, but do not let some consideration ruin your life. Young girls are easily deceived by vanity, but in a real marriage, that can give you at night kicking off the quilt cover is a man worthy of the man entrusted his life.
14. to cherish the true love you and good for you man.
good man will be truly beneficial way for you Hello, you are not condoned, nor is the name of love bound you. Such men rarely, if met, we must cherish. Young men are often the way with pure love of his girlfriend, he may mature, but his love is true, do not lightly give up. After many life experiences in the community,
coach bags, you will know how a really valuable.
15. all too late.
this world there are many good men it is hard to find the other half. Not all men love virgins only,
coach sneakers, not all men would care about your previous marriage, but not all men care about your age, qualifications. There are many good marriages, men love, is their own stupid woman, naive, and, and a round body, or the mouth of the sinking mole. You suffered the injury, he will double and care, your courage, make him more respect. So, even if injured, but also the same as Kim Sam Soon, brave love, like not been hurt. First, you only open yourself, the world will let you go.
16. Do not start the pursuit of a man to pay his own heart.
good men and bad men in the pursuit of the beginning you will care about you, then you give you, give you a text message, take care of you when you are sick. Not one was nice to you, you will immediately fall into the trap, think about, more to see, make a decision. Generally, four months, enough contact, enough to make you understand him. Internet exchanges is not, and then not too long network of contacts, and real life makes sense. You have to eat with him, shopping, do something together, to understand him. You have a good time, you know. In many cases, not a man to deceive us, is our own lying to myself.
17. If you love him and accept him now, do not expect him to change.
if he can change, of course the best, or to think about, you can not accept. Disadvantages of each before marriage, marriage will be magnified. He smoked, and you love him, just try to accept it, too few married men to quit smoking. Other shortcomings as well.
18.30 over the age of the men are living habits, lifestyle has been fixed, as a woman completely the possibility of change is not too large, and he needs you to adapt to him. Instead, young men are more willing to change for the beloved woman.
this one is entirely my personal feelings may be wrong, please forgive me.
look back, after all I've done wrong, but fortunately my nature is a Love and marriage, is the biggest test of a female life, vast majority of our growth stems from this. I write, some are corny, I can be true is each of painful lessons, later, I will tell my daughter, the mother of the child as a blessing.