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If we are to seek honesty to gain authenticity, we should review the decisions we make for our children and ourselves in order to understand what influences these decisions. When we realize we have made or are making decisions based on what others think, we can choose to change.
If we are honest with ourselves as parents, we will find many instances where our decisions are made not for our children but for ourselves because we are worried about others' approval or disapproval.
Now as a music enthusiast I realize that what I am about to tell you is very contrary to my beliefs about music and its evolution as an art form, BUT this article is solely about how to make music that will eventually lead you to signing a Record Deal. This leads us to our second method.The second method to creating a hit song is to follow a popular trend which already exists in the music industry. Now the word "popular" is a very subjective term. So, the best way to determine what is "popular" is to look at what is actually selling records. Check out the Billboard charts and see which songs are actually selling in today's market. Then, focus on creating a song that sounds like what is actually selling in today's market.
Generally speaking, there are two ways to go about creating a hit song. I will explain to you these two methods and why one method is MUCH easier than the other.The first method is to create a new trend in the music industry. The most influential songs of the last century were undoubtedly the ones in which an artist took a new direction and created a new popular trend in music. However, even successful new trends are faced with much resistance in the beginning. Even worse, the majority of artists who try to take music in a new direction are unsuccessful in developing a popular trend.
I found myself trying to discourage her by explaining that her clothes didn't match and therefore she should change. But then I paused and asked the question, "Why?" Why is this important to me and what's really going on? I realized quite quickly that I was concerned with what other parents would think of me, if I allowed her to go to nursery school dressed that way; I was worried about their disapproval. Simultaneously, I realized that in desiring Julie's conformity for my own benefit, I was discouraging her own creative expression and pursuit of her own authenticity.
As discussed earlier, approval issues are often relative to the group or groups with which we associate ourselves. In effect, these groups represent our peers, and in seeking approval from our peers we often conform without thinking things through for ourselves.
To be independent, to make our own choices, we can't be worried or obsessed by what others think. We should be interested in what others think replica asics, because we value and evaluate other ways at looking at the world. But, ultimately we have to make our own choices. If we worry about someone else's approval or disapproval we can't be free, often making a decision to get approval or avoid disapproval. Making a decision for this reason is the wrong reason. Ultimately, it will be the wrong decision in some way, because it is not our decision. If it is not our decision, it does not support our journey towards authenticity and the discovery of our own truths.
Issues of approval and disapproval are difficult for most people because they involve the ego. Our ego, needing to feel right and hating to feel wrong, seeks validation from others. Thus the strong needs of the ego cause us to make decisions because we will gain approval - validation - or avoid disapproval.
Freeing ourselves of the ego's influence is a serious challenge. As we become aware of the ego's influence and choose to become independent and develop our wisdom, its influence gradually dissipates. The ego is like a bully. As we stand up to it, the ego loses its power because we are no longer scared. We become secure in our own powers, our own abilities 59fifty hats sale, because we have developed our own truths that transcend the shallowness of the ego and its attempts to intimidate us with its false power and phony demonstration of strength.
So, I stopped trying to discourage her. Instead I reconnected to an appreciation of her desire for individual expression and told her how much I admired her creativity and independence, though perhaps not in those exact words. Being human Gucci sunglasses, however, I did catch myself telling some other parents at nursery school that Julie had dressed herself that morning.
When my younger daughter Julie was four she decided it was time to pick out her own clothes. Being inventive, creative, and not locked into preconceived notions of what was supposed to go together, she was free to pick out whatever suited her at the moment. What suited her at the moment was combining different tops and bottoms from matching sets, and then picking socks and shoes that - in my humble and rigid viewpoint - didn't match. To add insult to injury, she wanted to go to nursery school like that!