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73251 2010 年 12 月 07 日 17:44 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (0) Category: Personal Diary
When the husband and wife quarrel or altercation between lovers, we hear it: we love the beginning of why we would not have so many gap?
This is, indeed justified, is a question to discuss. Why is this? Why is love between men and women will be the beginning seemed so harmonious, so heart to heart, to later on down? Some have become like strangers generally do?
Some people say that is due to live a long time together, there is no passion; also some people say that the gap between long as there is no solution to a certain stage when it will gather reasons for the outbreak.
put it all makes sense, but the fundamental reason is that these claims are not, this is my personal opinion.
The most fundamental reason
then what is it? The fundamental reason should be That is, in love, people do not understand very well to seriously object of your love you do not know many of the characteristics, that is, that you may not accept the lifestyle,
gucci sunglasses, work style, and acted the way, etc. . When living together for some time, the phenomenon of these features are to each other out, then the conflict arises, the river gave rise to, coupled with no good communication, intense squabbles and quarrels will be inevitable.
fact, the gap is unavoidable, and it is an objective reality. Do not go so there is no gap in the value of marriage and the negative side of love, to a correct understanding of the barriers, because all the barriers were once two people know each other is the beginning of a profound opportunity with one another, why fear divide it? Must not hide the gap, or circumvent the barrier, so not only can not solve the barriers to each other, it will be counterproductive, causing greater problems, making the gap between two people into violent conflict.
love marriage preparation period, in the preparation period to fully understand each other's habits and character all possible, do not look at appearance, occupation, family, and so these external things. I mean, do not simply look, is not to look, because the home environment for the life of a person's attitude has a very important influence, and practice as well.
understanding of character for a man in love marriage the most important prerequisite, if this goes wrong it will not start in the marriage has been a round loser. Personality is particularly important, such as: a bad-tempered alcoholic who is not into ###### and marriage life, marriage and a good chop and change, nor is the conclusion of those.
marriage and career, the need for an honest, trustworthy, a combination of people to overcome problems. Only by doing so, marriage is a happy, stable, harmonious, beautiful family.
I would like to advise another 1.1 between husband and wife who, when referring to the beginning of what love, what the people do not take things before that thing, because you have to change, not in front of you this people, not only his (her), as well as you. Think you would not have so many complaints, you say?
wish everyone all affiliated with each other, and the U.S. United States.