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one, play the weak dollars - to children as a culture, if you're always in front of the children showed no fear of a storm the way, the child will think that parents do not need to take care of their concerns. Therefore, parents may wish to occasionally play a weak, to the child for help, you will be surprised to find that children have therefore become a sensible
Second,
new balance sneakers, the reinforcement count - let the children change from the self-esteem self-confidence.
James, Ph.D., California everyone. Duobo Lin proposed the When a person's behavior is satisfied with the results, this behavior will be repeated. Therefore, when children are recognized, he (she) self-confidence will be inspired by, repeated acts of satisfactory until the get rid of low self-esteem and become self motivated boy.
Third, induction of dollars - to help children across the weariness of the quagmire.
almost every child will be somewhat weary, it is understandable but not laissez faire, because such sentiments would hamper the enthusiasm of children to learn, the growth of the child bring about unpredictable impact. However, children learn not to force a good way, this will only deepen the child's aversion, wise to induce the child's interest in learning so that children learn spontaneously.
IV, indifference count - give children a little self-control.
kids today are mostly only one child, by the meticulous care and family care, but such a life allows the child to develop a wayward habits, the bad habits of life will the child buried next great risk. Experts suggest that children may wish to try the cold willful, which makes the child automatically due to lack of attention to the convergence temper.
[ft =, +0,] five dollars granted setback - the failure to give children a chance to experience.
Le Er, American educator card. Sandburg said: .
six, let go of dollars - to develop their own kids to do their own thing.
Do not do anything for the child, parents should try to let go, let the children do it independently, the first may be done, but later will be done faster and better. Do not be arranged parents, open hand to create work opportunities for children and platform independent capability in order to have children, parents will be less trouble.
seven, conniving count - let the children in the , curiosity, curiosity than strong will power more firmly than the average child. Therefore, the wise parents should try to
eight penalty count - let the children look at their own mistakes.
educate their children should reward and punishment, the child should be given incentives to do good, but when the child does something wrong must not be tolerated, even if only a modest little mistake should be punished, so that children can face up to their mistakes, timely correction, so that the error in deeper and deeper.
nine, cooling dollars - to own children,
self-evaluation is too conceited, arrogant, this kind of psychological growth of children is very bad, so if it is found signs of own children, parents should use pouring cold water, let the children learn to rationally evaluate their own, a proper understanding of their own.
ten, inclusive terms - let the children feel their parents unconditional love.
children may not smart enough, there may be many shortcomings, but as a parent, you must not prejudice the child, humiliation, or anything against their children. The child must be inclusive, have confidence, you get a kind of child.
[ft =, +0,] Eleventh, the model account - parents give their children a good first teacher.
Parents are the role models, children mirror their parents, the parents will affect the demeanor of the child. So parents strict law has, always made everything right in their own behavior set an example for their children and guide their children grow up healthy.
second, to encourage total - to the children and progressive forces.
children can easily lose confidence in ourselves, it is easy to give up work because of the difficulties, therefore, parents should continue to encourage children to give them the courage to move forward and win the confidence of parents that their children will be able to take expectations correct shortcomings and progress.
thirteen, listen to count - to understand children's feelings seriously.
each child has their own feelings, parents must be patient to listen, to truly understand a child's thoughts, feelings, can the child physical and psychological problems, changes in processing to make timely and detailed . With this foundation to good communication between parents and children,
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XIV Enhancement Award - the sound of children in praise progress.
educators feel that teaching children, the reward is more effective than the punitive approach. Therefore, they suggested that instead of punishment with reward correct errors, to replace the negative with the positive advantages of disadvantages,
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fifth, Enlightenment terms - cleverly and consciously prompted the child the right course.
ramble preaching, everything arranged for the child's parents are not like most children, the wise parent will act in the children encounter problems or errors, provide little tips guide to help children solve problems . In this way, children understand the truth, parents also reached the purpose of education.
[ft =, +0,] sixteen, virtual dollars - to children that
educator Suzuki of Japan, said: the child.
XVII total capacity of over - let the children learn more in the wrong.
life, the children always inevitable that some mistakes, mistakes. Some not, some intentional. If the child is not committed very serious nature of the fault, then the parents might be given to tolerance, understanding, so that the children will not only blame themselves in guilt to correct errors in the more seriously, but also allows children to form good tolerance mentality.
eighth, admonished dollars - to children about the error, turn over a new leaf.
child is a child, will continue to lead to various problems and errors, some errors can be tolerant, and some errors are not tolerated in the. Children must be reasonable and effective criticism, in order to ensure that children no longer make that mistake, even the most generous parents, do not let this absence of reasonable discipline.
nineteenth, the influence of dollars - in the lives of the children good.
family is the child's first classroom, home education for their children is profound and immense. Therefore, if the parents in family life, through story-telling, etc., to cultivate children's health interests, cultivate children's interest, conduct, you can let the children grow up healthier.
twenty, to divert dollars - to children from confrontation into cooperation.
Dayu's success is Child in education would lead to too authoritarian rebellious child, the child with you
[ft =, +0,] the twenty-first, respect for child count - let the children closer to their parents.
conflict was the result of conflicts between parents and children, often because of parental lack of respect, so that children harbor fear, resentment, opened the distance between us. In fact, children need to respect, then they will become the parents of most children welcome.
XXII, on the other terms - to achieve good communication with their children.
good communication with their children the premise that equal treatment of children, do children's friends. So that the child be willing to tell you the truth, parents can help children get rid of the problems in a timely manner. If parents are always parents stand arrayed, to require children to obey their authoritarian, then the door of communication between parents and children will be gradually closed.
xxiii, total offense and defense - give the child playing the
Art of War, said the best defense is a good offense. Child the same way in the education, problems with their children, they go to parenting, anger, might as well give the child ahead of time playing the
round, training Jian total - to help children overcome Jiaoshe of gas.
children are home now Some of the children to develop a Jiaoshe habits, spend too recklessly, not know the value items, this habit of the child is extremely detrimental to the healthy growth, so parents should educate their children confidently thrift, to help children develop the habit of thrift, This is the real love of children.
XXV, with education dollars - to teach a boy in participation. If the parents can participate in
children's lives, spend more time with their children to do something, then not only can enhance parent-child affection, but also inspire children, while parents can know more about their children,
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[ft =, +0,] XXVI, anti-micro meter - do not let small problems become big children's issues.
life, children and sometimes there will be some minor defects, such as overbearing, rude, lazy, etc., the parents should pay attention this time, the problem is small, but we have strict control as a preventive measure, otherwise these small problems will become a big problem, when parents want their children to correct again, not so easy. Do not tolerate the child's small problems, strict control is also love.
xxvii, peace and total - for children and teachers mutually inclusive.
between teachers and students will also be some friction and misunderstanding, then the parents should act as Children still respect the teacher, the teacher continued to care for children.
xxviii, established accounting regulations - with reasonable rules to let children learn self-control.
poor self-control children and parents, determine the basis for their actions in order to constrain their behavior.
twenty-nine, reducing the burden dollars - do not give children too much pressure.
life, there are more and more children mental disorders, and child psychologists point out that excessive pressure led to psychological problems the child is an important reason for reducing the burden to the children has become a priority. In order for the healthy growth of children, parents please do not give children too much pressure.
thirty, to stimulate total - with stimulating children's way to make children love learning.
educate our children to find on the way, when persuasion, preaching else fails, parents may wish to inspire children to try this trick meter. Using the child's ambition,
Buddha at the foot of the absurd subject to (a) -, jealousy and even antagonistic to the heart to stimulate the child intentionally, so that they do not love to learn to become active by the study.
[ft =, +0,] XXXI, acceptable terms - so that children like and accept themselves.
If children can not fully understand myself, to see their own strengths, and that there will be many problems. Such as low self-esteem, envy and so on. Therefore, the parents let the children see their own merits, let the kids enjoy themselves so that children can face life with confidence.
thirty, with tolerance meter - gently correct the child's
make some children have parents often can not tolerate pushed down the anger, more inclusive understanding of children and more children and guide their children on this basis, so as to lead the child the right path.
xxxiii, Li Yong dollars - to develop children to explore bold and courageous personality.
life, often those who dare to explore, courageous people who can achieve excellence, be happy. So, parents, the children's future, it will not always be overly protective of the children, do not over-emphasize the development of
xxxiv, probation terms - to true love for her child's mind.
education children, not just preach, scold,
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xxxv equal terms - to develop a mind open to children.
child is now mostly children, all of them are Therefore, the life, parents should be careful not to give children special status and train them to share the spirit of cooperation, and gradually develop an open mind children.
XXXVI, hard grinding dollars - to develop the child's will and perseverance.
today's children face a society full of competition, and many children are living is too easy, often lack the courage to overcome difficulties. Therefore, the wise parents should let children experience more than a number of difficulties and hardships of tough training, to develop their indomitable will and perseverance, so that they can compete in the future [ft =, +0,] win
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