Two days ago sent a similar article and felt a thorough analysis is not enough. I understand that the world has a lot of parents on this issue is very confused, very confused, as the mother of 80 children, but also empathy, the children although I do not have deep resentment, do not say conflicts, how to love children, how to understand children and how children learn to love is really important, the children's growth, in the end have to have a child understand love, will love, understanding, love, hearts because as otherwise the child Education is a big failure.
said a group of 80 children out of the case, Out of difficulty, and I also read some articles in detail. After reading it to understand: Recently in Douban.com online, there is a forum group called The team has existed for more than two years on the Internet, and more than ten thousand registered members. After more than 80 children that call After those 80 children, that parents are the biggest Related media also reported the matter.
I am also a mother of 80, can also be basically classified as 50, the face of the child's growth, have also been many conflicts, but also often blame the child, do not understand, often debated, and even bee . Sometimes children say: Can be heard saying The children said their parents is their So, I was anxious to know why the parents have become their
parents charged with three crimes: controlling and family cold violence, conflict, life and children.
deal with their resentment from the child, I felt the cold heart dolphin, dolphin do not know love, do not understand the love of the heart. If parents focus on your life much, much more even interfere, intervene much more, they are all from the bottom depths of the soul in their parents love. Parents love their children is unconditional, a child out of the house behind you how much the parents care and miss, as a child, you experience before? Understand before? Many a night, the parents state the phone is in standby, it is waiting for a child far away, you felt it? Parents do not trust you, want to make your life better life than their own, you can give everything, you understand that before? Parents came from years of hardship, suffering through no culture, want to change the fate of children through reading, you understand before? Full of understanding and love of parents who never resentment of their parents. So I say, any resentment against the parents of children in the depths of the soul element of lack of love, love, only with love to experience, to understand, this is not a big deal, which is the subject of life, the seed of love by parents planting to grow a child's heart. Parents, children love blindly, and not let the children know how to love, the end result is that children do not have a love, a cold heart to read how to motherly love and fatherly broad, a company of their parents resentment children, how to love others,
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course, as parents, children face the resentment, it should reflect on how to be a competent parent is also important.
to talk about the desire to control their children's problems. I think if parents really want to control all aspects of children's desires, such as education, work, buy a house, spouse and other aspects of control are even interfere with the children, so parents do have problems in the ideas and concepts. While the child is born to parents, but as a person, the child is independent, has independent thought, have their own pursuits and ideals, in what way life should be the child's own thing. In fact, a child felt controlled by their parents, feel that some aspects of life, not his freedom of choice, this is a wake, this is precisely the kind of self-reliance in the community, the performance of independent existence. First of all parents to give children the freedom to grow, freedom of choice, the pursuit of freedom, all things are even arranged to replace the parents, the child must feel bound, to be controlled. Especially in such a diversified development, the pursuit of an independent era. Therefore, in this issue, I think that parents should not attempt to control the child, put the child freedom to grow, parents just silently watching the child, do the child's strong economic backing and spiritual support, the children really need their parents support time, to not hesitate to give support and help. Therefore, I advocate the child's parents not to attempt to control everything, do only care about their children, concerned about the children, understanding children,
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second question is about the cold violence issues. Parents, eager to succeed in life, Over time, the children always say something Shangzi Zun's too far, then, a number of behavior sometimes unknowingly harm or affect the child's self-esteem. For example: Hello stupid, you nothing, do not like this school, you see who no one better than you, etc., these are the words of self-injury in children. I am here to say this, not that I do well, I am also a regular cold violence intentionally or unintentionally, to the children's mother. One time, little girl said to me; to her feelings? In fact, when she is along with them to see, but my point is to get her sister to see. I still hurt another's self-esteem. Family cold violence is not the most important for children with confidence, good boy is the boast out, as parents often use the language to the children to have positive, especially when young, let the child build up enough confidence, it is parents responsibility. This point, I also speak from experience. In turn,
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third problem is the way of life and child conflict. This is, I am afraid that the family has experienced. In the food issue, the conflict in our house often, in most cases, we do all of the choices, often do different meals, a child, the parents of a. Speaking of this, I am reminded of a few days ago our family trip. And two children have accumulated to a city, should be a happy thing, but if the lack of respect for and understanding of the child, may not be happy. Can not be forced on some issues and preach to children should not take the We are a family of four is often during lunch time because of not eating together and divided into two groups, a group of two children,
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visible, be a good parent is not easy how? For control and strong will not do, not less attention, do not understand the child can not. Parents is the major problem. Have a chat with friends, friends, good sense of humor to say: In the past parents raised us, every day is what means for us to cook; now we do every day to the parents what their children eat? What can cook? What kind of rice? The bread of life here, raising the level of his mouth, but also includes differences in lifestyle, that is, the different generations. Parents to recognize this.
The children say their parents are their Parents respect their children, the children respect their parents this is a two-way. As how children understand their parents, respect for parents is also a major problem in the real world, but also aroused the attention of the. To understand what a child is born Well, what is raised well, at least if the conscience of even this did not, this child have a problem. The fault of the parents is to have no more reason to their parents as their own
a lot of hope that all parents understand their children, a lot of introspection, a qualified parents. In particular, as parents, children growing up in the child learn to love,
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let the children learn to love, teach children to learn to love the responsibility of parents.
love their parents, know parents, resentment is not the responsibility of the child.
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