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ago, I also believe that a young lover is always really, really have life, and then happily holding a pair of hands that can hold a lifetime, began to imagine forever, so accepted This commitment,
tory burch wedge, there is always naive to think: ah ... ... you say Oh! Oh life ... ... Gradually, several experienced feelings of frustration, began to suspect that is not true to life, can never ... ...
I ever heard a law professor of caution: Do not talk to your boyfriend to be a lifetime commitment, because you do not know, he gave the life, time how long ... ... you want him to promise 30-year love you, love you 60 years, even you do not want to tie him, just like he loves you a month commitment, this commitment of time limits, it seems the conditions of reality, is only A more pragmatic agreement only.
Professor
cited an example:
a lover of small contacts from the university began, and this in everybody's eyes on the golden couple has long been an enviable pair of , life care for each other, and as the other pillars of the spirit, the intention of each other is never disguised.
once, the girl said the professor agreed, relayed to the boys to listen to, the boy know that his girlfriend of law is to share practical sense, and he promised to the girl, the girl promised not easily the future of life, he can only promise: I will love you and stay with you until you have the 27-year-old birthday, if you can, I promise you will come back to another phase of commitment.
then left the hearts of boys and girls shared understanding; in subsequent exchanges, although boys and girls love diminished, but because of academic pressure on future goals are different, the expectations of parents , personality, interpersonal relationship conflicts, natural inevitable quarrel between lovers.
arrogant anger anger each girl, the boy along with her only comfort, while the eyes of the boy at a friend's notoriously hot temper.
Gradually, the number of boys and girls found that argument more and more frequently quarrel, the girl several times to break even the idea, the boy has also been angered to intend to accept the break up, but hard-pressure gas such words.
time around, boys and girls, step on the red carpet has already successfully Cabanatuan, and has a son and a daughter,
tory burch handbags, a total group of happy families. Only when the girl asked: 'My husband, I know I was the temper very delicate, and you are out of the name of the popular kid, how do you willing to put my bad temper ah? I really was kind enough to take his life? 'Man smiled, but holding his dear wife:' Thanks to the words of professor you had quoted, I would give you the 27th birthday of the commitment to support my hot temper did not attack endured, but also help us support After a day most likely to hurt each other. But for that promise, you had mentioned to break up, I may have to do with your points, where to now the happy days ah? ! '
hearing the story, and my heart seemed to leave more ideas,
tory burch flip flops sale, how far it always? Life is not really my life? I want to give a period, perhaps practical point of it!
the greatest act of a woman, than as a man I'm wastin ... ...
man most worried about is that a woman has been waiting for him ... ...
love tired than you imagine, a lot of time, two people have to live hard to live than a person.
a person, want to go go where, and who want to go to and who to go out, do not have to be the boss scolded her boyfriend mood today, do not and the need for others to follow suit at the expense of a good gathering of friends and does not need a high fever due to cold girlfriend at the expense of the morning to take care of important meetings.
a month to go out, no one will complain about your life is boring; instant noodles every day, no one would suspect you are not good for him; a night not speak, no one will in the ear that you do not care about him; a week without bathing, no one would suspect you are dirty.
two people together, he was not happy, you have the responsibility to listen, care, fun for him, even if you do not feel good, we must pull ourselves together to help each other refueling encouragement.
a person, happy to work until dawn every day also keeps you in, but when two people, if you sleep every day in the company,
tory burch sale, they will complain about why you refuse to spend time with him , and then argue that even the break up.
Some men think that love is easy, just time to ask, 'had enough yet? 'Kind of statement if P is less than defined, and occasionally eat dinner, watch movies, it means that love continues.
However, if you do so, you will find that women actually very lonely in the end you know you do not understand what she was thinking, so you know love to devote the time to continue , women have long had decided to leave you.
envy is always some couples do something together, work together, watch TV, eat together, cook together, walking together, bath together, and then sleep together.
you do not see is that they sacrifice the work of the time, expense and friends go out for drinks and music of the time, expense and the owner of private entertainment flattering time, they chose to sacrifice one's Happy to achievement of two people happy.
mind you think that fit the most enviable couple, one thing into their mouth,
tory burch shoes, no matter how many differences in their views, you can always see that they support each other's sincerity. They always have a similar move, one crying, tears also followed another, one joy, along with other people smile.
Do not you see, they experienced a myriad of debate, so they often find themselves did not understand each other's ideas, so they spent more time than others, exploration, mining, debate, communication, self-righteous that they give up a lot of ideas, learn to compromise in the debate, and learn not to insist on, learn to accept, learn to appreciate and learn the views of another person must learn to communicate with equality and mutual respect.
and when you communicate with the opposite ######, you is not know the reason?
When we see the difference and distance between men and women,
tory burch sales, we always think in a more relaxed manner. Do not like people who prefer to ride like him like a boat from another partner, would not want to learn to accept each other as the car transport. People who love to eat meat would rather blame each other why not eat meat, do not learn in order to maintain relations vegetarian.
many issues we prefer to adapt to each other, preferring to blame others rather than themselves, just because it is easier. Those feelings can be the envy of people who maintain them and not necessarily smarter than you, then perhaps only because they know how to adapt to the requirements of the other party outside, and he is learning to sacrifice and compromise.
lots of sweet relationship, have to pay back the cost of pain to maintain, when you envy someone, ask yourself: will you pay these costs how much? If you do not want to pay this price, if you think relations should not bother to maintain power, then do not expect you to have such a relationship.
good emotional relationships will not fall from the sky, it takes effort, to careful management, to be willing to pay ... ... but also a promise!
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