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(a) the growth of fable : do an apple tree will never grow an apple tree

finally result.
the 1st year, which bring an end to ... with 10 apples, 9 were taken away, they receive one. In rejoinder, angry apple trees, then cutting off, in rotate, refused to grow. The next year, it bears a 5 apples, four were taken away, they receive one.
However, it can do: continue to grow. For sample, the second year, it bears the 100 fruit, 90 were taken away, they receive 10.
is possible, it is taken away 99, they receive one. But no matter, it can continue to grow fruit the third year-end 1000 ... ...
fact, how much fruit is not the most important. The most important thing is the tree to grow! Such as apple trees grow into towering trees, those who have hindered its growth will be weak to insignificant power. Really, do not worry so much about the fruit, the growth is the most important. Psychological Review】 【

you are not a meridian of the go has since broken household?
began work, you gifted, high-spirited, I deem that But the reality soon buffet a few of your Sap, maybe, you made a large contribution for the unit that no one seriously; maybe, merely not only by verbal emphasis on affordable; perhaps ... ... In short, you feel like the apple tree , bear the fruit of their own to enjoy only a small part, and falls distant short of your expectations.
So, you are vexed, upset you, do you complaint ... ... In the end, you decide not to work so hard, to do to mate their own income. After the past few annuals, as you reflect on that now you have not just the work of passion and aptitude of the time.
But the essence is that you have stopped growing.
such stories abound around us.
why make such mistakes, because we forget that life is a journey, a whole, we think we have grown over, now is the time of the fruit. We too care almost temporary acquisitions and losses, and forget the growth is the most important.
Fortunately, this is not a Jin Yong novel of self-off passages. We stand ready to give up act so, continue to migrate toward growth way.
Remember: If you are a working group, met do not understand treatment, treatment or peccadillo treatment brutal boss or corporate mores, then, to caution ourselves about, do not disgruntled because of the anger and the self-off passages. No matter what, have to do an apple tree will not grow because you always grow important than how much money each month.

(b) the motivation of the parable: the child in whom a group of children playing

frolic in front of one elderly, sounds a great deal. Over the elapse few days, the elderly unbearable.
So he came out to 25 pence for each child, said to them: happy, the afterward day is still coming, as forever, playfulness. Come out to the elderly and gave each child 15 pence. He annotated that he had no income, only a small to some. It also can be 15 cents, children are still happily away.
the third day, the age male gave only 5 cents for each child.
children with rage,vibram five fingers kso, Psychological Review】 【

whom you .
two types of people motivation: internal motivation and external motivation. If the internal motivation to perform in consensus with, we are mains of their own. If we are driven by outer motivation, we will be swayed along external factors to become enslaved along it.
In this fable, the calculation is simple for the elderly, who will the children's internal motivation factors, so it wielded the children's action. Fables of the elderly, a lot like your boss, boss? And cents,buy vibrams, like not like your wages, bonuses and other kinds of external rewards?
as a reference, such as coordinates of the external evaluation, our emotions can easily fluctuate. Because we can not control external factors, it is easy to deviate from our internal expectations, let us disappointed, let us grumble. Gripe and let negative emotions such as pain, in order to depress the pain, we had to reduce the internal expectations, the most prevalent method is to reduce the work effort.
A person can manner an external evaluation system, the most important reason is that parents like to control him. Parents too favor to use verbal awards and disciplines, matter stimuli and other control children, not to bypass the child's own motivation. Over time, the children have forgotten their original motives, what are the external evaluation of care. School, he has forgotten the original motivation for knowledge --- curiosity and delight of knowledge; work, he forgot the original motivation of the work --- the joy of growth, the evaluation of superiors and income fluctuations into his work the largest source of pleasure and pain.
Remember: the external appraisal system is often a family history, but you can crash it, from now on cultivating their own internal evaluation system, to learn and work into a

(c) Planning fable: a chip of paper folded 51 times

Imagine your hands are a big enough white. Now, your mission is to fold it 51 times. So, How high?
a refrigerator? Floor? Or a skyscraper so high? No, a big change, the thickness more than the distance between Earth and the Sun. Psychological Review】 【


to now, I obtain asked a dozen people in this fable, only two people said that this may be an unimaginable altitude, while others consider of the altitude of the maximum That is a high skyscraper.
folded height of 51 such terror, but if not the 51 pearly paper stacked attach?
This contrast made many people feel shocked. Because there is no direction, absence of blueprinting in life, like the 51 White simple stacked. Doing this today, morrow little morsel of that,vibram fivefingers reviews, each time there is no correlate between efforts. In this way, even now each work is done very well, they have your whole life is nothing but a simple superposition.
, of course, life is more perplexing than this fable. Some people, life finds a easy way and firmly to do so, they reached the other end of life unattainable height. For example, I have a friend for your life is English, he spent more than a decade efforts, only the memory of the word reached the measure of ten million and more, by this point to approach the mean person can not match the height.
some people, and their direction in life is also very remove, case in point, to start a corporation boss, so they absence a lot of capabilities --- skills, management capabilities, communication skills, decision-making skills and so on. They may try doing this in the opening, and attempt doing that, nobody is especially able, but in the end, open the company boss in the direction of these seemingly dispersed the previous integration efforts together, which is a kinds of complicated folding in life, preferably than simply cumulative.
Remember: the power of sight more useful than the hidden forces.
Now, the fashionable location to detect the question from the unseen, such as the latent development, such as Success, that we depend on some marvel of life can be saved. However, in my attitude, Counseling Center, Dongguan Heng Yuan consultant Mao Zhengjiang more correctly, avoid the fables: cat escape the shadow of the tricks

, Tom and Toby base, at a time the sun appeared, they will penetrate that they are mad for their own shadow.
However, Tom and Toby finally have found their own solutions. Tom is always close their eyes. Approach is to Toby, always stay in the shadows of other asset.

【Comments】
mental note of this fable, a tiny mental problem is how to become more psychological problems.
can say that all psychological problems are derived from the distortion of the facts. What facts? We effectively those suffering negative events.
because of the pain experience, we do not want to face the negative events. However, once happened, negative events that is destined to be with us for life, we can do them up but is restrained into the subconscious to go, this is the so-called forgotten.
However, their subconscious ambition still proceed to play a character. And, even if we have forgotten the fact that mighty another, the grief related with these facts would still attack us, let us somehow sorrowful, and can not be inhibited. This ache Let us beyond effort to escape.
development to the end, the usual solution is to these two: both, as we like the cat Tom and completely misrepresenting their experience of life in always the important facts are ignored negative; alternatively, we, like cat attention than for, simply connect their undergoing, his own everything were very bad, since anything is so bad, that make their maximum sad accident is not so incipient pain.
clouds mental hospital consultant, said Li Ling, 99% of drug consumers had a painful experience. The cause they did drugs to make themselves to escape the pain. It's like hide in the shadows, painful fact is a demon, the monster in order to lest this, simply to sell itself to a greater devil. There are many alcoholism
adults, they have had an alcoholic and abusive father, father survive a lot of torture. To forget the pain, they learn the same way. In addition to these visible
bad access, we humans have invented a myriad of a heap of ways to escape suffering, Freud referred to these usages of psychological defense mechanisms. Too painful, these ward mechanisms is essential, but aggravate, whether the deformation of the facts of psychological defense machinery is so intense, it will take a more psychological problems, such as obsessive-compulsive disorder, social worry disorder, multiple identity, or even schizophrenia.
really only one way to reach a healthy --- face the pain. Facing the pain would get a lot from the pain of abrupt gains, they will eventually become the life of the celebration of wealth.
Remember: shadow and light, as are the wealth of life.
one of the most important psychological decree is, no matter how painful, you are no escape. You can only go brave face it and resolve it, further it, and it finally reached a settlement. If you own a temporary absence of power, you can find help, find friends and relatives for help, or seek vocational help, attach you believe with you to face the pain.
Rogers, American psychologist, was the most alone human, but when he determined to face this fact and after he became a true main of interpersonal relationships; American psychologist Frank has a brutal and alcoholic stepfather and a bad mother, but when he challenges the fact and, afterward, from the heart to forgive his parents, he became an adept in this zone handling; Japanese psychologist Morita nag was creature solemn neurological disarray, but he challenges the fact and through Morita therapy finally invented the ... ... their most painful fact of life eventually became their most important things. You can do the same.

(e) action fable --- crabs, owls and bats

crabs, owls and bats to cram on the accustomed. Few years afterward, they graduate and get a doctorate. However, the crab is still rampant, owls sleep during the daytime and evening activities are still the cmd still hung upside down. Psychological Review】 【


This is even prominent master of a fable, and its averaging is simple: action more important than knowledge.
accustom in mental health, this story is likewise thought-provoking.
phoned mysterious knowledge of psychology. However, the more even the best knowledge of psychology help a person does not automatically become more healthy. In fact, I know some people who had studied psychology for many years, they learn one of the purposes of psychology is to rule themselves, but after so many years of school, their problems remain.
reason why this happens, a very important reason is, they do not personally, so far just the knowledge of knowledge, knowledge, and not into their own life experience.
one of my friends like psychology, has been considered fewer perceptive than those of psychology, not appropriate for Psychology. But the fact is that presumption is not correct. He is not acute enough, but he has a very big advantage: to know a good knowledge instantly in their own lives to do it. As a outcome, the knowledge that becomes a distant real life experience, he does not
If we say that the quality of lofty sensitivity is a talent, then the power is more major Gao talent quality.
this fable can bring ... to an end of another meaning: Do not expect too many the sorcery of the secret psychological treatment. Always the most important coerce in your own body, the mysteries of knowledge, the potential development of recondite, dazzling success and so forth, are far inferior to the power of your own body has been important. We used to go appearance to find the answer to somebody another looking for strength, the results have forgotten the power in themselves.
Remember: additional people's wisdom can not automatically retention you.
punch if some renju touched you, if some text or a new creed inspired you. So, these other people's words and experience are just a start, more importantly, a good knowledge you think you really use in your own life to go. Jewish philosopher Martin Buber
these words, I have always thought the most important:
you must start their own. If you do not love to go deep in a positive life, if you do not own way to reveal the meaning of life for themselves, then for you, life will remain insignificant.

(VI) to give the Fables:

bees and flowers withered roses, the bees are still hard suck, because it takes before sucking off from this little sweet. But immediately in this little to cost, the bees suck the venom.
bees know this, because the venom painful taste is the big difference with the before. Thus, bees anger, however, exhale on it the whole world looked up to complain about, why the taste changed? !
Finally one day, do not know why, bee vibrating wings, flying a bit high. At this time, it found, withered roses nigh the flowers everywhere. Psychological Review】 【


This is the fable about love, is a young language instructor of the true sentiment.
some time, she was falling out of love, painful, and always wanted to talk about me, I hope I can give her some knowledge of psychology help. We have some time, but almost two months later, the aggregate time they can not happen to get together.
the last time about her, she said: The pain of lost love is still plagued her, let her trance, unable to enjoy the beauty of Jiuzhaigou. Inadvertently, she noticed a little on the honey bee is a flower. That moment, her mind like thunder and lightning appeared in one sentence: was such a stupid, she's the bees in this sentence refers to her own course. That moment, she had to give up the truth out of insight. Previously, she ambitioned me to help her out, but in fact, the long wings in her own body, she can fly to fly.
give up is not cozy to give up adore, primarily painful. Because, love is while our juvenile copy of parent-child relationship. Small children, no stuff from which side, parents can not do without. If a complete disapproval of his dad and mother, and that means decease for him, this is the ultimate injury and terror. We have capable more or less been denied parents the pain and panic, so when love --- of copies of the parent-child relationship once again we experience the pain and alarm, our sensations can easily become very bad.
However, compared to love and parent-child relationship, there is a big difference: a child, nothing we can do, all parents have the terminal say; But now we grow up,vibram five fingers, we have the power to choose their own fate. It can be said, a child, we do not have wings bee, but now we have a couple of powerful wings.
However, when deeply in love, we will return to infancy, we forget that they have a pair of wings to fly. When we accomplish that, after their love is no longer automatically copy parent-child relationship, our love was free, there is a give up power.
Remember: Love is two things,vibram five fingers coupon, two completely equal, independent and human reputation thing. You can work, but not that hard for you there will be results, because another person, you can not make sure.
So, no matter how much you care about the time love, if another person resolute to depart you, amuse esteem his alternative.
And also remember, you are no longer a child, are left with the pain of torture. You have grown up, you have a pair of powerful wings, you can fly out of a relationship has become poison.

(g) close to the fable: the unique Rose

Little Prince has a small planet, the planet suddenly blooming flower blooming roses. Previously, only some nameless on this planet the flowers, the little prince had never seen such beautiful flowers, he fell in love with this rose, cautiously nurtured her.
those days, he thought, this is a unique bloom on earth, only his only planet, other places do not exist.
, whatever, so he came to Earth and found that there is a garden just the same as 5000 of this flower. At this time, he knows that he only have an ordinary flower.
the starting, this discovery, let the little prince was very sad. But in the end, the little prince to understand, nevertheless there are many roses in the world, but his planet tis is still matchless because that rose, he had water, cover flowers to cover her with a shade protection over , in counting to her body caterpillars, but also to hear to her grumbled, or boasted, listening to silence her ... ... a word, and he tamed her, and she tamed him, she is his unique roses.
Psychological Review】 【


This is a French classic
face of 5000 roses, the little prince said: But now we empty the increasingly popular We are anxious to have
. Seems that every has had a rose, the merit of their own lives to Duoliaoyifen. Internet old, with several ten lover, is not longer a rare thing too. But I know who these promiscuous, no an is blank. They do not enjoy the relationship, they equitable enjoy the conquest.
But once owned, they will rapidly lose interest in this intimate relationship. the stronger the desire to win, the faster the rate of loss. magnetic.
However, the relationship between the United States, almost two inputs is the extent and degree to be tamed. When two people are certainly working into, certainly, be tamed, the relationship will become a life nutrition, so that a person's life becomes more filling and more beauteous.
However, no matter how close. The Little Prince is still Prince, Rose is still a rose, they are still two individuals. Rose not to peregrination if the little prince, little prince or non-travel the roses with me, they must stick together, the relationship is no longer enjoy, but will become a burden.
Remember: both a close and mutually independent relationship, the relationship is better than a thousand general. This relationship will bring us the sense of loneliness from the hopeless emancipate, the most important in our lives as a salvation.
If you have not experienced, you can not know the beauty of this relationship.

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