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Summary: Many parents, often because the child's problems large and small, kicking up clouds of flies into a rage, and sometimes can not help in the case of furious shouted abuse of children, hit anyone.
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anger many parents, often because the child's problems large and small, kicking up clouds of flies into a rage,cheap oakleys, furious sometimes the case in a child can not help but shouted abuse, hit anyone. However, in fact, what the parents have really willing to hurt with words or conduct your own child? Parents will often guilt afterwards, but due dignity, and bent over the whereabouts of children is difficult to apologize. Last fall into abuse, guilt, and then beaten, and then the vicious cycle of guilt. And to break this vicious cycle, in addition to actively improve the child's problems, the most important point is that when the children when their parents introduced gunpowder to fire immediately, the problem solved in time.


parents when a child has aroused the anger of parents to immediately extinguish the fire of his mind is imperative, otherwise it will lose-lose confused. The following recipe, intentioned parents may wish to try.

careful look

eyes will affect emotions. When the parents of the child Numuxiangxiang, and stubborn child feel my heart is not satisfied, then the eyes may be treated the same parents, so everyone's mood only worse. However, if completely avoid eye contact, and will make each other feel slighted. The best way is to parents around the eyes just looking at the position of children on it.

control of sound and emotional tone

will affect each other. When emotions start to lose control, parents should avoid raised his voice scolded the child, if you want to blame the child, you should tell him with a firm tone: Sometimes the child's injuries may be more serious than the other way. Parents Do not use personal attacks to accuse them of adjectives,

placed his hands

not less from the ten little fingers, the action often is damaging to accomplish through them. If not hit children, parents, pound the table up and angry, slams the door, throwing things, will be pushed to the sides of the emotional climax. Parents, thrusting his hands into pockets, pressing his hands to sit down with the thigh, and even cocked his hands, in short, do not let your hands busy in there,Mac makeup discount, or if the parents hands at that time available,mac blush, it may be the wrong impulse.



being away with the kids with their angry, it would be better not to see the children temporarily in the case to cool it. Both came into the kitchen drinking water, or wash your face into the toilet, bathing, or stroll the streets for a while, will continue to be with their children than their parents struggle and get angry and lose control is better. Of course, before the parents go away do not forget to tell the children, parents temporarily leave purely to cool, while we will discuss the issue just happened.


However, even if the parents own successful and timely fire, the flames will also have to be careful revival. When parents temporarily hide,Oakley sunglasses, we should also think about themselves and their children in a positive manner: destructive.