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With 1500 pastors and their wives leaving the ministry each month, one can't help wondering what could possibly be that devastating to cause them to throw in the towel, say good bye to their call and to each other. You've heard that until you walk a mile in someone else's shoes, you really don't know what 'they're' feeling? It's true. Things don't happen over-night but over long periods of time, little by little they pile up, until one day there seems to be no hope in sight.
In this day and age with all the access to so many areas of help, you'd think it would be simple to determine where to go for help. But you know as well as I do that when you first have a little cold symptom you don't just run to a doctor, pay him money and then pay for a prescription. Well, I guess some do. I don't, I first try to treat the symptom myself, you know the 'home remedy' version of help. It often works too, and I can save a bundle of money and time.
So, what about a faulty marriage or a ministry that's not working? Can home remedies work without paying the money to bring a third party in? It can, as long as you can diagnose the problem correctly, then stumble upon the exact solution, implement the remedy in time and are careful not to under deliver or over dose on the formula. The problem is we tend as humans, to try to 'fix' the problem ourselves and many times it's not a matter of money, it's a matter of pride. Who likes to admit that things aren't working like they should? So, instead of 'acting' to save or solve, we do nothing.
Pastor, if you and your wife are driving to a destination you've never been to before and you slowly realize you've somehow made the wrong turn, do you love it when your wife pipes up and says, "Oh, honey let me tell you that you made the wrong turn two lights back, you need to go back around and let me direct you into the right turn?" Or, to your wife, consider this; you are breaking your back preparing a brand new dish for your husband, you know you've followed the exact instructions in the recipe, but somehow something went wrong and now you hear, "Well, honey, I think if you would not turn the oven so high and possibly turn the dish around about half way through cooking, it would have turned out." Do these instructive suggestions really take care of the underlying problem?
It can be very notable of us to try to solve each other's issues. It even sounds quite loving and giving actually. But one thing is certain; it goes over like a lead balloon. Why? Because we are not taught how to approach situations and each other in a manner that not only gets us where we're going, but does it in a fashion that our partners and loved ones actually see us as the asset we are, rather than the controller who knows it all. Let's don't forget, this is earth, not heaven. When we get to heaven, all pride falls off high heels air jordan women boots, prior to entrance. A humble spirit says 'I believe we need some help here.'
So, my best suggestion is this. Don't wait until things in your marriage and ministry get to the boiling point. Boiled water takes much longer to cool off than lukewarm water. Seek that third party who can help you nip the problem in the bud because that third person is viewing things from a perspective that you and your wife don't see. You're too close to the situation to get the best view. Besides air jordan high heel pumps, we don't always like seeing the 'other' side of ourselves, especially when it's coming from our spouse.
Now, for the part of choosing the help you need. There are a couple of things you'll want to consider when finding help. First off, ask yourself how fast do you want to see results? And second, how much are you willing to spend to get results? Which brings us to the third consideration; who can zero in on the problem, expose it to both of you in a way that does not injure you, but at the same time gives you solutions that are Godly, that really work and do not take years to see results?
Let me answer this way. When my husband and I were looking for a mentor/coach to help us with our marketing for the life coach website we carefully considered about three individuals. The one that kept coming back to both of us was a man who advertised that he helped his clients by an 'up front and in your face' method. I wasn't sure I wanted the 'in your face' part, but the upfront aspect was something I know can work and I crave that. It's what I call the 'front door' approach as opposed to the 'back door' approach to things.
We both prayed separately and together. God spoke to my heart that we needed the 'up front' and that it was basically similar to my coaching approach of 'front door' approach. So that part thrilled me. You see, when someone comes to visit you, do you like for them to come right up to the front door, ring your bell or knock, or would you prefer they slip into your back yard, go to your back door and then just stand there and hope that eventually you'll walk around, see them and open the door? The front door approach means you have someone who gets it, shares it, provides the correct solution and you move into results fast. Standing at the back door approach is someone who likes to sneak around issues, guess at solutions, and then hopes that someday something they say will work for you. Friend, that's not help, that's just lining their pockets and wasting your time.
As far as the 'in your face' part, I felt the Lord spoke to us that possibly our mentor might be the type to cross the invisible boundary line that all of us like to put up around ourselves for protection. So I asked myself what I was trying to protect. Our whole object was to move into success through exposure and if this approach would cut through the dross, save time and energy it would be well worth the investment, because it would include saving money to get faster results. So, we moved on it.
My suggestion to you, hire someone now before things get worse. Stop fooling yourself that you can manipulate circumstances and diagnose each other to get where you need to go, you've tried that and it's not working. Get a really good third 'front door' solution that not only saves you money in the long run, because results are faster, but saves your marriage, and your ministry. A solid marriage can easily foster a strong ministry. They actually complement one another. Remember the 'marriage of the lamb'? Why not just a friendship in heaven with Christ? Because a marriage is intimate and because a two-fold cord is not easily broken, it exudes strength. God wants that for your marriage and your ministry.
So find a good 'front door' coach air jordan high heels, invest in yourselves and experience the happiness and success you so deserve now, not later. You don't have to say good bye to your marriage or your ministry when this endeavor becomes your bottom line. Go ahead and move on it, you know you want to.
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