Maintaining a marriage is by no way an easy task. A marriage takes two completely different people
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When the inevitable trouble rears its head, most people simply choose to walk away from the marriage, because they're not selfless enough not to do so. So first thing first - congratulations for staying and trying to fight on.
I have been in your shoes, and I was very desperate to save my marriage. When my husband made it clear to me that he didn't want to be married any more; I went desperate and begged my husband: "Please George, I love you! Don't do this - I know of my mistakes, and they will never happen again! Please!". Not the best thing to do. Why?
Simple - no one wants a begging, apologetic and "pathetic" looking spouse. But it's not easy to think of that by yourself when you're in the midst of the whole issue.
That's why after some time I thought that I needed to get some advice from an outside source - and I turned to the Internet.
That's what made all the difference: I was taught how to stay calm and exactly what to do when you're facing a divorce. And it made me save my marriage.
So this is what you should also do if you're asking yourself "how do I save my marriage?" - you should stop trying to do it yourself and ask for some unbiased, outside advice from a trusted source - when someone isn't in your situation (which means they're unbiased), it's much easier for them than for you to come up with something that will have positive effects.
I can't find my voice. I want to scream or confront the person, but I get a lump in my throat.SECTION EI want to go away and avoid the whole thing because it causes too much anxiety.I go away emotionally. I feel frozen or paralyzed or simply disappear and show up when it's all over.I am shocked. I can't believe it. It all becomes a blur.To establish your
Primary Emotional Response Patterns, count the checks for each section. Then look at the section that has the most checks. That's your
Primary Emotional Response Patterns.Section A= Defective Section B=Fixer Section C=Saint Section D=Follower Section E=Sleepwalker Types of Toxic Magnets We humans are complex beings. Once you have dived into the infinite layers of the subconscious, you learn that we are as vast as all universes existing throughout eternity.
Therefore, the types that are presented in this self-assessment barely scratch the surface of your
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Section A: The Defectives If you checked a majority of items in Section A, you may respond to the
Toxic Magnet Type called
Defectives. The
Defectives secretly feel defective, damaged, less than others or insufficient. They seek to gain value by giving, being good, serving others, placating or appeasing or by playing second best.If you fit this profile, this does not mean that you ARE defective. It means that the
Ugly Duckling is alive somewhere in your psyche, stealing the majestic Swan you truly are. This hooks you up with toxic people
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