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Reprinted from 826037670 at 12:15 on October 23, 2010 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (0) Category: fleeting. Mark
introductory phrase: we encounter in life will always be a variety of difficulties and setbacks, which will allow us depressed, tired of life. If we are in such a state of long-term, no doubt will affect our work and studies. So when we encountered such a situation, I learned to comfort himself. The following twenty-five ways to comfort themselves, I believe after reading you will be of significant help.
first consolation: The most important is that today's heart; -
- why the pain of regret and loss of feelings now, why worry for the inexplicable suicide out of fear. The past is gone forever, no matter how regret is useless. The future is elusive, and then how will concerns about the empty sad. Today, heart, and now people do today, but it is real, but also feel good. Of course, past experience to summarize, to prevent future risk, this is wisdom. - Yesterday is gone and tomorrow has not arrived, this is true. -
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second consolation: only his own heartache treatment; -
- why the pain of regret for the loss of mood. Vent the occasional complaint, but also very necessary, but will only add to the endless complaints of trouble, only to show their incompetence to others, complaining is a deadly negative attitude, once complained about his bad habits then life will become dark not only their own good and no state of mind, and others have bad luck followed. No good to complain, optimism is the most important. -
- Third comfort: good state of mind is self-created;
we often can not change the opinions of others, can change just by ourselves. Life is not bad other people's sins, but in our hearts to become worse. Golden Key is not to make life change for the better hands of others, give up our resentments and sigh, a better life within reach. We wanted a good life subjectively, but objectively it is not a good life, the reason is always to wait for others to improve their lives, do not expect to change other people, own the master of life. -
fourth consolation: the intention to do their own thing to do; -
Life is too short, which people wanted to waste it? Wise philosopher once said: Some people call me on the street, I was without looking, and did not want to know the boring person! We are not going to hurt people, do not be so critical of others, or in accordance with their wishes, first talk sense to learn skills. Especially in the youth learn skills to go all out, do not get distracted. -
- the fifth consolation: Do not always make life difficult for themselves with their own; -
learn to appreciate themselves, the same as having a golden key to get happy and appreciate that they are not insular, appreciate that they are not conceited, narcissistic appreciate that they are not to enjoy themselves more than stand still. Their own interest to some of his letters that he give yourself happy, smiling face for ourselves, why should we worry no life happy? - Often to their own holiday, learn to find pleasure in the mood. -
- sixth comfort: Do not chase worldly honor; -
- someone recognized the so-called life-long search for something lost forever their joy and happiness. Ashes to Ashes his vulgar comments will be personality, will make their own secular pointing loss. For money and the cash to make their own disowned for the right to make their own reckless right, in the name of the name to make themselves skillfully taking Grab, the real me in the pursuit of being deliberately, will become a picture of debris flapping in the wind, the secular I have become terrifying. -
- was kitsch, lost the real, to strengthen their confidence, with self. -
- seventh comfort: extremely undesirable; -
- often because of concerns over some people, which led to his insanity, but because of some insensitive, resulting in their indifference to everything. The former often find rational and pain, too clever by half and the bad, stupid is what the root of all regret. Do not know remorse after the mass, all day long sleepwalk life, living and dead is no different. Extremes always fail miserably, look for the wisdom of life. -
- eighth comfort: you're doing someone else's evaluation; -
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not a painting is not to be evaluated, and no one is not to be topic of discussion. If their silence, someone will accuse \Just look at someone else's face, do you live do not live with ourselves, not confined to self. -
- Ninth comfort: the more painful the deeper evil; -
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Why can not live peacefully? key is no time driving the hearts of evil. Because the feel evil thought, would not be sensible to restrain myself, and often make stupid remorse. Mind because there is no time cleaning the dust, who will be weak from time to time fall into the pit. Since it is often possessed, will let stupid be so blind, into the wrong fork in the road do not know. The hearts of evil,
pandora online, will distraught, to evil. -
- Tenth comfort: Be careful not to live too tired; -
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is often lamented, live tiring. Tired, is the mental pressure; tired, is a psychological burden. Tired and not tired is always relative, in order not tired, we must learn to relax, you live in a Zhang Chi. Heart is tired, people had long suffered sub-health state; heart is tired, will make their own lack of energy. -
- not too tired heart, learn to set them free. -
- Eleventh comfort: Each person has their own living law; -
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your pain yourself clearly, their own sad they understand, their own feelings of happiness, and perhaps their own eyes hell, but it is another man's heaven, heaven may be your own eye, but is another man's hell, life is so funny, do not always spring in the family suspected, the key is to adjust their mindset had their own lives the most important, is not better than climbing. -
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twelfth comfort: not to desire the slaves; -
- people always sigh \But if they think about it, we live around the tragedy of this desire there? She Tunxiang less people. Indulge their souls will eventually lose the real freedom! Must be alert to bad desires. -
thirteenth comfort: take life easy and happy; -
- blind comparisons with others, their will be leisurely, not to set too high goals in life, their joy will often not deliberate pursuit of perfection, will be away from the pain of their own not always take himself, his will to live free, do not often find fault that he will be easy. Live too tired to be in pain, contentment! -
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fourteenth comfort: like his will to embrace life; -
- blindly arrogant self-esteem, is proud of the life of ignorance,
pandora jewelry, blindly give up on themselves, is negative and pessimistic life. Understanding of their more difficult than to understand others, like themselves than like others more difficult. Have a healthy self-esteem appropriate psychological, will show the face of setbacks particularly strong. The temptation of the outside world is not lost self,
pandora bracelets, not to deny their own temporary setbacks, always cool and objective evaluation of their own, often optimism certainly appreciate themselves. -
fifteenth comfort: the use of good eyes to the world;
water is clear there are no fish, no friends of people to the police. Everywhere can not tolerate the faults of others, then everyone becomes bad, it can not live in peace. To see the world of evil, the world is broken remnant of everywhere; to good look at the world, the world a lovely place. Their own to look at other people's strengths, the more look the more lovely.
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sixteenth comfort: do not blindly to please others; -
- it is impossible to please everyone, and it is not necessary to please everyone, equal to offend everyone, deliberately to please others will only make others aversion, close to people to nature, speculative mentality to change, have the time please, not as good as working sense, is always a risk to please others, their only real effort. - Blindly to please others will lose self, to enrich themselves is very important. -
seventeenth comfort: a done deal would have to go with the flow; -
- mature rice raw rice has been boiled, go to the previous behavior of regret, that the benefits are not, the only sensible approach is how to handle things behind, do not let things get more worse, thrown out of the water is not being paid, and has been carved wooden boat is not restitution, and to know the truth of these simple, you can calmly deal with legacy issues. Regret no benefits, not to take things worse. -
- eighteenth comfort: Although poor psychological material is not down and out; -
- the poverty-ridden is not terrible, terrible poverty is psychological. Often associated with the down and out of poverty, poor people often want to turn off the short and Records, psychology of poverty, the rich will become poor, psychological rich, the poor can become rich. Poor material with despair, will quickly destroy a person's body, self-confidence, poor material at the moment, but the good days will come soon - the people are poor go rather short, self-improvement. -
- nineteenth comfort: there is evil curse of blessing blessed; -
- Mo temporary gains and losses are carried away, blindly intoxicated with a temporary victory, he must be vigilant and must not claim credit arrogant, complacent, intoxicating victory means stop and pause, enchanted victory means the loss of vigilance, life on the road to never Zhong maintained, the victory is just a small sign. To win the final victory, only the effort, more effort. Mo was confused for the moment, who laugh at the latest,
pandora charm, who laughed the most fun. -
twentieth comfort: It is important to live full; -
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to have a good every day is the greatest happiness comes from feeling good every day, always worried about tomorrow's risk, the total erase the shadow of yesterday, today,
pandora necklace, how can the lives of wishful ? Comparisons are not always comparisons, the total fantasy that can not be achieved, how can the quiet mood today? Unrealistic things that are the source of the pain of life is the biggest killer of sadness and anxiety, and pain from not fulfilling, enriching life, not cranky. -
- Twenty-one consolation: there are degrees of life should be fun; -
recreational activities appropriate to adjust the mood, the joy is easy to turn endless benefits harm. Anti-matter is very, few poor to change, \Carnival enjoy a taste of drum life is superficial, the result is often painful regret. Enjoy a degree is a philosophical life, Queer is not limited to entertainment, involving all aspects of life. - Is associated joy and sorrow, joy often accompanied by a degree will be happy. -
- Twenty-two comfort: for a living law may be more happy; -
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own work extremely liking, everywhere are feeling the wall, is there a need for a change of scenery? When his very unhappy in marriage, and always feel are icehouse, have the courage to break through the knot? When one has been used to submissive, will stand tall to say \Confident, able to self-improvement, able to adjust their living conditions, do not be useless to live comfortable is the spirit of happiness. -
- Twenty-three consolation: may wish to temporarily put aside bothering; -
- Life is short so bitter that he is not happy why is always live. Is normal in trouble, no trouble is not normal. If your heart feel good, we might go to the movies, may wish to listen to some music, may wish to sing a song, may wish to make a phone call, might as well enjoy the sunshine. Mind to worry about hell, the first of a happy music. -
twenty-four consolation: the foundation of pleasure in himself; -
most people in life always pleasant, and placed in the external affairs attached to the secular identity, the status of every possible value, property, and the benefits, reputation and other things that he once lost the will a heavy blow, often lose, their well-being and happiness of the foundation also will be destroyed, if they really had such a life, then we want to be far from happy, why make others to evaluate their level of happiness, a good grasp of their own . -
twenty-five consolation: feeling of happiness is happiness. -
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called in deliberate pursuit of happiness. Although there has been, its costs are huge and many philosophers have said that happiness is a feeling. To as \The feeling of happiness and satisfaction with the decline, with people's state of mind, attitude are closely related. Sages have said: get the more difficult, deeper love, with happiness, often thought difficult. One can always feel happy, is his greatest tragedy. Happiness is a feeling, I do not know enough, never be happy.
the Editor: In life we often encounter some life difficult for the threshold, then if we too seriously, I am afraid that the last sad thing is our own. So, you feel tired difficulties, as stated above, to comfort themselves, that would be of great help to you. After reading it, do you think? -
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