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son to the U.S., settled in the U.S. after graduation, I returned to find a diplomatic wife Susan. Today, grandson Toby has been 3 years old. This summer, my son applied for a visa to visit relatives. Spent three months in the United States, foreign wife Susan ways to educate their children, to my eye-opener for the Chinese mommy ......

not eat on one empty ......
every morning, Toby woke up, Susan, to the breakfast table a unlock, to just reserve running around tending to the. Toby climbed up on their own stool, drink milk, eat toast. Meal, he returned to his room, in the locker to find clothes, shoes, and then put their own. Toby, at the end of the day, only 3 annuals old, still unclear about the positive and negate children, tin not differentiate left and right foot shoes. Toby once again dress pants on backwards,If marital, we must live favor this .,GHD Red Straighteners, I quickly stepped along to help him alteration, but was Susan stopped. She said that whether he felt uneasy off on their own, re-dressed; if he did not feel anyone discomfort, it will be with him. All that day, Toby is wore in his pants to run around, as Susan did not see the same.
again, Toby and the neighbor kids out to play, no more breathless to run home to the General Assembly, to Susan, said: , really? Susan smiled and said: Since then, Toby had never wearing anti-pants.
reminds me, at the age of my granddaughter fifty-six not use chopsticks, elementary educate will not tie his shoe. Now boarding at the junior high school, she brought home every weekend do a lot of sordid clothes.

day at noon, Toby disgruntled, refused to eat. Susan said that his few words, angrily pushing the plate a little Toby to the ground, spilled food on a plate in an place. Susan looked at Toby, said earnestly: laughed among herself, this mother and son, are all very stubborn!
p.m., Susan and I consult in the evening for me to cook Chinese food. I take the clue, Toby particular favorite Chinese food, it must be midday Susan Toby did not feel good to eat, let him eat extra at night.
exhibit cooking that night I did a Toby favorite Sweet and Sour Pork, shrimp fuel boring, but also pasta made with Chinese-style cold noodles. Toby likes to eat the kind of noodle, full of little human can eat a big panel.
began to eat dinner, and Toby joyfully climbed the stool. But Susan came, took away his plate and knife and fork, said: to cry in tears, weeping, said:
I feel wrong, and absence to make Toby excuse, mention a agreeable word, a wink to me, was surprised to ascertain his son. Remember when I first came to the United States, his son told me that, in the United States, parents educate their babies, others do not mediate, even if the elders are not exception. Helpless, I had to remain silent ...
the repast, from starting to end, the meager mini Toby has been sitting in toy car, saw above helplessly when the three of us adults devour. This I comprehend that Susan actually Chinese food I intended to do. I deem that afterward time, Toby would like to throw tantrums when their jobs ambition surely memorize their abdomens to see my parents and grandmother meal experience. Hungry savor bad experience, alternatively face Moreover, their preference food.

before going to slumber, with the whereabouts of Toby, Susan and I say good night. Toby cautiously asked: After sleep sleep Open your eyes, you can eat? Toby lustrous.
most cases, Toby dine quite affirmative, he did not want to Every period I see areas to dine Toby, hard by breathing, his face viscous lips are food, I consider of her granddaughter, she, like Toby so many, in order to coax her to supper, a few adults holding jobs with her rear end sprint, she did not buy it, yet too about the conditions: behind eating a bowl of buying toys, eat a bowl of buying a doll ... ...

eye for an eye, but few people that the body
One day, we took Toby to the park to play. Soon, Toby and two girls playing on the kitchen game. Plastic pot, a small shovel, small plates, small bowl placed over the floor. Suddenly, a naughty Toby picked up the pot, knocking his pate hard on a girl a morsel, the girl froze a moment, explode into tears. Another smaller digit of young girls, see some cases, have been scared into tears. Toby did not anticipate about such serious consequences, stood, shocked ...
Susan walked up and ask what the whole matter, she was silent, pick up the pot, hard knock to the head of Toby, Toby did not arrange for, all of a sudden fell to the grass, the cry randomly attach. Susan Toby asked: I'm sure he'll never do it.

uncle Toby presented him with a light blue small bike, like Toby, as a child, not let anyone touch. Neighbor girl Lucy is a good friend Toby,Impression, Toby several times solicited to ride to his car, Toby did not question.
time, when several children play together, while Lucy, Toby, do not disburse care, secretly ride car, sped away. Toby discovered, came to the Susan angrily complain. Susan is the mother of several children and chat with a cup of coffee, he smiled and said:
After a little while, Lucy was riding the car back. Toby saw Lucy, a will she fall to the ground, grasped the car. Lucy sitting on the floor and cried. Susan elected up Lucy, to appease her as a while. Soon, Lucy and additional children happily activity afresh.
Toby riding car for a while, feel a little silly, seeing that having so numerous children happy, he wanted to add, and feel a little mortified. He rubs up opposition Susan around, muttered: , reaching her side when they turn back. Back and forth several times, do not know when to begin, Toby and Lucy and a big grin, downtown has chance a team.

disciplining children for parents to do
Susan's parents live in California, I listened I'm coming, they drove to visit us. Home to the visitors, Toby namely very excited, run up and come down to earth rampant. He used to play with dirt bucket fraught with water, put the keg in the house walking around. Susan advised her several times, not the water spill to the floor, Toby ignored. Finally, Toby, or the pail prostrate, and the water spilled over the floor. Excited little Toby do not feel erroneous, and also pride to play barefoot stepping water, the pants entire rainy. I quickly find out the mop for mopping the floor. Susan grabbed the mop from my hand to Toby and said: Susan apart from everything another, instantly to the storage room he pulled, closed confinement. Toby heard crying inside the earth-shattering publish, I feel bad bad, want to go pick him out. Toby's grandmother has stopped me and said: wrong. . He took a swab of his 2 struggling with lofty water haul on the ground neat. Then he took off his pants, carry in their hands and bare buttocks into the bathroom, splinters from the dress to bathe.
Toby grandparents looked surprising I look, smiled with deep wisdom. It left me with deep feelings. In many Chinese families, parents exercise their children, often reason a

Later, I talk with Toby's grandparents, the say of the matter, Toby's grandfather said the words, so I was very impressed. He said that children are the parents of the child, parents must respect the child's pedagogy. The child is small, but it is born ambassador, when he saw the distinctions among kin members, he will be very smart at exploiting loopholes. This is not only no behalf to enhance his action, it will lead to increasingly solemn problem, and even send more other problems. Moreover, conflicts among household members,Interval of ~ #, family atmosphere will send disharmony children more insecurity, the psychological evolution of children adversely affected. Therefore, either parents educate their children with grandparents in the accident of a disparity on the issue, or the husband and wife have assorted concepts of education, are not in front of children in conflict.

Toby's grandparents lived in the house for a week, ready to return to California. Two days ahead leaving, Toby's grandfather solemnly asked his daughter: give her a pair of roller skates as a gift to the Christmas toy excavator as a gift to buy him! Later I took Toby to the supermarket, he pointed to the toy excavator, said:

Although Susan Toby so rigid, Toby incredibly loving mother to Quedui. He was playing outside, it will collect some good flowers or leaves his considered smart, solemnly given to mother; someone gave him a gift, he would call her mother to join him apart; what savory, but also always quit half of it to her mother.
think of many Chinese children's stupidity and indifference of parents, I had to appreciate my foreign wife. In my opinion, the child's problems in education, the American mother has a lot to study from the Chinese mother.