This data is entered into the Daily Weigh-In Form, which I introduced last posting. Here's the form again:Let's focus on the concept of necessity.In the fourth column, you assign each purchase a Necessity Score: 0 if the purchase is totally unnecessary, 1/3 if it's not very necessary, 2/3 if it's pretty necessary
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And then she waited again.
We may think our wants equal our needs. In other words, that we just have to have a certain pair of shoes or gadget to be happy, successful, etc. While this can seem simple when we're talking about basic needs like shelter and food, it can get murky when we're looking at other items. Here's an easy way to really get conscious about determining the difference between a need and want.Weighing In is a technique for cutting through the financial fog that envelops so many overshoppers. Weighing In involves the disciplined recording of purchases-and something more. You also categorize each purchase, choosing from a master list that groups expenses into logical bins: Home, Food, Clothing, Entertainment, Education, and so on. And you assign each purchase a Necessity Score
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The next night Mark gave Jen a call. Jen did not break down and cry or make a big emotional scene. She kept things fun. They made small talk. Mark then asked her to have lunch with him the next day.
Yep. It was a bad scene all the way around. Since you are in Jen's situation, you probably figure there's no way to win your love back. How can you repair the relationship? But Jen and Mark did get back together. Let me tell you how that happened.
Jen was in your shoes -- but she realizes now she caused her own pain by acting irrationally. Mark was talking to Jen's good friend, and when Jen saw it she mistakenly assumed he was flirting with her. Jen got so upset about it she broke up with Mark.
Jen then put forth a great amount of effort to talk about upbeat things. They talked about memories they had already made together. They talked about family, which reinforced their history together. This was a necessary step for Jen to take in order to repair the relationship.
Mark told Jen he never had wanted things to end, but he didn't want to ever have to go through another similar scene or dramatic situation again. He wanted Jen to know that he would talk to other women and that she shouldn't see that as a red flag.
Let's just leave the story there. Mark and Jen agreed to take their relationship to the next level. They decided to start "dating" again -- that they would never take each other for granted.
Jen was wrong. Mark was actually consulting Jen's friend to help her organize a surprise party for Jen. The fact that Jen didn't trust him really hurt Mark. He felt she must be untrusting by nature and that they really had no future together.
After 7 days she sent him a short email note that said "I'm thinking of you." Very simple.
When they met for lunch, Jen looked great! She wore the sweater Mark had given her, and she also wore her hair the way he always said he liked it best.
Jen sent the letter. And then she waited. She didn't call him. She didn't text him. She didn't email him or leave a message on his Facebook page. She just simply gave him some time.
I know after a break up it seems like you will never have love in your life again. I know; I've been there. But you will have love in your life again -- you may even win your love back. Listen to what happened to Jen and Mark.
Since Mark wasn't talking to her, Jen decided to write him a letter. She sat down and wrote him a sincere apology and admitted that she had shown a lack of trust.
Now let's look at the situation: Mark obviously had feelings for Jen, or he never would have planned the surprise party in the first place. But his feelings were hurt. He was hurt. However, Jen had given him time to work through it.
She also told him she was especially humiliated because of the nice surprise party he was planning for her. She expressed the reasons why she appreciated their relationship, the things they have in common, and the gratitude she felt for the good times they have had together.
And, according to Jen, that was not an easy thing to do. And it won't be easy for you to do, either. But it's necessary if you want to win your love back.
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