News Playback: 19-year-old girl Xiaona Middle School (a pseudonym), as Xiaona 13 months with the mother for not saying a word, and something to write notes, send text messages. Now her mother wants her daughter reconciliation, but do not know how to do that.
newspaper reported chord among readers. Several readers have had the same experience a phone call, telling their own stories, I hope to give some reference to her daughter Xiaona.
yesterday, the newspaper reported reprinted by a number of sites, 19-year-old girl was puppy love with the mother conflict, fueled hot discussion. Mother and daughter in the end wrong? Who should be more than a year in this
users participating in the comments, nearly Qicheng friends that her mother should review their actions, take the initiative to ease the relationship and her daughter.
■ readers about
to let her leave her boyfriend
mother had been to kneel, never had food
Ms. Chang, 50, , her daughter was admitted to the University. She said, and her daughter have had this experience.
daughter on the day of the eleventh grade, take the initiative to come up with a note to her. It turned out that a boy had written her a At the time, her daughter said she had refused him back, and to write the
However, just on the junior year when her daughter, Ms. often stumbled, his daughter and the boys still lingering, Ms. Chang said that her family was originally in the field, in order for her daughter to school, she sold the house, gave up good jobs and moved to Changchun. Squatting on the roadside selling vegetables for her daughter to school,
nike mercurial, especially not easy. Previously, the school has been a first daughter, so she can find hope.
start, Ms. Chang can not control their emotions, to take a very extreme way, gave her daughter had knelt next, find the daughter to leave the boy. Not look soft, and she came hard, with a hunger strike to force his daughter.
all can not go, do not know how to do, After reading the book, she suddenly realized that was his mistake.
from that day on, she never mentioned her daughter in front of it, only concerned about her studies and life. She also admitted to a good school.
Ms. Chang concluded by saying: >
her daughter how to unlock the
our proposals are divided into two categories, one is for the mother, one is a daughter.
proposal to his mother
parents should give way to detour
Cheng readers: Parents should not be too strong, the total child to impose their own ideas , the child has always been an individual. Do not always considered itself the elderly, should be properly lowered their place. Respect for the child, on the basis of equality, a deep level of communication. Only mutual understanding and establish a relationship of trust can be a useful communication, parents can guide their children properly.
friends Many bookstores this book,
chaussures de foot, and Xiaona mother should buy a few of the look, learning to learn.
psychologist Green: Parents educate their children, not just only consider, the key depends on the results. If the method is not effective, even if the parents be better for the children, but also the role that can not afford. Therefore, in this case, parents should give, for different situations, to take a roundabout approach.
daughter recommendations
Xiaona should move book, take a look at home with her mother, or watching TV programs in this area. Xiaona can also move,
psychologist Green: Xiaona should believe that her mother loved her. Convinced of this, the proposed action Xiaona may wish to use to prove to mom. If the results are not down, did not affected any other aspect, I believe my mother would not say anything.