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2197760 2006 年 03 月 09 日 17:34 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (1) Classification: Emotional World
a One psychologist has written, called a mature love affair
must go through four phases, that is:
coexistence (codependent)
anti-dependent (counterdependent)
independent (independent)
symbiotic (interdependent)
transition time between stages is not necessarily, the person asking questions.
first stage: co-exist.
This is love period, regardless of when and where lovers always want to bored together.
second stage: anti dependence.
until the emotional stability, at least one will want to have more time for their own want to do, then the other will feel neglected.
third stage: independence.
This is a continuation of the second phase, demand more independence and time.
fourth stage: symbiosis.
get along now has a new shape, you, he (she) has become the closest person to you.
with you, support and together create a life of your own.
tie him down with you not to each other, and each other grow.
However, most people pass the second or third stage, the choice of breaking up a way, it is very unfortunate.
a lot of things will be all right as long as good communication, not playing personality,
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and meet the love is not easy to fall in love, do not give up.
two together because of affinity, know each other because of the determination,
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want to see these four stages, really give you some inspiration and insight, and unfortunately edge, we will gradually become the people we love.
you and he was not in common,
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pace you walk somewhat similar tone of voice is also more and more alike. His neck a mole, one day, you find yourself neck can have a mole, the original we will become what we love.
down to earth person you would have liked,
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lively girl he would have liked, but you fall in love with the restrained, these days, and you have more lively, you almost could not recognize himself. We will gradually become the ideal of the other person, such a change is definitely not intentional. The more two people love me long, temperament and more and more similar, have you ever thought that he was not the type you desire, however, one day, you were surprised to find that he has become the type you like, you do not have looking around, he is the person you're looking for.
deeply love someone, you really had to lose yourself a little bit, why do you still feel happy?
probably because you lose the moment, but also earn you his temperament and his smile is earned back ... ...
being simple ... ...
So the talent to be very simple easy to obtain ... ...
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