The day before yesterday, Chen Yun accompanied her husband at home. Recently, Cao Yubin paralyzed husband for 25 years filed for divorce, he felt indebted to his wife, should she be free. Reporter Wang Jianing She
■ Event Background
married 28 years, paralyzed for 25 years, could not bear to drag his wife, Cao Yubin Mentougou dining hall town in the divorce court, to repay his wife free.
23 days, Mentougou Court dining hall from the divorce court in this case.
court, 57-year-old villager Cao Yubin Chen Yun was full of praise for his wife.
1985, the Cao Yubin coal in coal mines, the tunnel collapse accident, he was buried under the mine, despite the rescue, but a paraplegic, life can not take care of themselves. That time, Chen Yun is pregnant, and the following year gave birth to her second daughter in May.
the face of life stress, Chen Yun did not choose to escape, but her husband and taking care of 25 years. Two daughters now have to work.
Cao Yubin feel unworthy of his wife, Even if the divorce that he will continue to take care of her husband. The day before yesterday, Mentougou court issued a civil mediation to allow divorce. But do not leave the couple divorced, but also live together.
p> Chen Yun she spoke, they would find it strange, loud noise does to agree to a divorce.
Caoyu Bin and Chen Yun to divorce. 25 years ago, Cao Yubin work in the coal mine, the tunnel collapse to his waist and legs all smashed off, and paraplegia. With that time of Chen Yun second child, she chose him as one people, over 25 years.
Cao Yubin ask the judge, he felt a drag on his wife, can not drag on, to leave, even if only the freedom of form to his wife.
Chen Yun said he never thought of leaving his wife, and they will not.
divorce
Although the couple are over fifty, he would divorce his wife if only to give
Cao Yubin said unworthy of her. He had been a soldier, as hell, and now lying for 25 years, and consequently could not do. He said, watching his wife and daughter suffer, their worse than dying.
Mentougou dining hall in their home town of White Tiger Village. Less than 100 village households,
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if only to give his wife the
two daughters are opposed, but Chen Yun agreed, she said she understood her husband's mind.
husband can not move, Chen goes to court pleadings delivery, turned at the door three times, the judge that she does not firm, said that household surveys have special circumstances. civil mediation to allow divorce.
official from the marriage, but the couple did not tell her, for fear the child unhappy and affect.
accident
The other side stormed away.
Chen Yun feel from a divorce are not the same for so many years, also came.
Moreover, had survived the period of the most difficult circumstances.
may be busy due to the long-term, Chen Yun speaking speed to play like a machine gun, sometimes suddenly forget where just said, and she says, she 51 years old, his mind a bit confused.
but October 24, 1985 this day, Chen Yun always remember that he is pregnant with her second daughter, and preparation of Cao Yubin down the mine, take her to hospital for tests.
9:00 and more,
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Director Song Fuqiang White Tiger recalls the first village, Cao Yubin mine cart in the village at that time, too slow loading of the hands of workers, have to run through the shop and go, when the tunnel collapsed and buried the entire Cao Yubin , dining hospitals can not cure, they were immediately transferred Jishuitan Hospital.
Chen Yun rushed to the hospital, her husband's waist and legs broken. Relatives to accompany the bed quietly advised her to do abortion, Cao birth to a male baby to leave after the birth of a baby girl and the eldest daughter to the company.
after I heard the then party secretary, and family planning said that the second child do fine.
After six months, Cao Yubin was discharged home, high paraplegia, incontinence of urine are.
pressure
it would just hurt, the family is not Brad, Cao Yubin heart trouble, a trouble just shout at her,
the village to pay the medical bills, and he was to discuss remedies. Finally settled, the insurance company and the village lost a total of 8,500 yuan. This is a huge sum at the time, but that is not worth Chen Yun. Can only resign to fate, 8,500 yuan in bank deposits and the interest to eat regularly.
Busy can not miss her one above, or at noon home to cook her husband a child,
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Chen Yun to fight on, but Cao Yubin not bear to let her stay.
Since then, made no say so.
few years ago, District staff household survey, see Chen Yun, a too difficult, to four people to do the minimal needs, and gave some other grants, the town government official asked her, people say that our work can not carried out. drug wrapped in gauze,
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ground live No matter how tired, tired not keep up with her husband serve as Chen Yun understand care.
Cao Yubin on admission, must turn over half an hour, Chen Yun could not move him, and Zheng Su could not sleep a wink. Later, Chen Yun in her husband to help him sit behind the chopping board pad, bed sores after half a month long, and into the hospital.
1999 Chinese New Year, Cao Yubin stand up to wear when the thigh meat out of a fixed needle, Chen Yun and her daughter said, You do not know, my dad how to do a bad pull? No holiday to work the civil affairs department, Cao Yubin surgery delays. It can not afford homes, the first 40 days have a relative security, he just let the hospital for surgery,
hospital after surgery had to change dressings, changed every day, every time a light drug money have nearly hundred dollars. A long time, pharmacies doctor said you were a little time after noon,
red wing boots, I offer to you. Chen Yun to noon every big his head is sweating, the doctor letting her night, she was afraid of people to work, would not.
hospital nurses for second drug 200, village doctors play second bottle have to 5 yuan. Chen Yun anxious, and had to Blade with alcohol to disinfect, then cut off with tweezers clamped Lanrou, alcohol disinfecting a wound dressing wrapped in gauze after the nurse for medicine half hour meeting, she had two hours to change a.
struggling
Cao Yubin think that children today have a stable job, Chen Yun was tied up too many years the home, the freedom and choice.
15 days, Cao Yubin home sitting on the kang, his perennial covered with blankets, his legs stretched out stiffly, had not bending.
sitting kang edge Chen Yun, and do not speak to so accompanied.
Cao Yubin think, had small children, divorce, they will bring harm to children today have a stable job, Chen Yun was tied up too many years the home, the freedom and choice.
TV where my missing father, mother less children, their cry. So many years,
red wing shoes outlet, I had not thought about leaving him, and will not.
edition have written / reporter Chen Po
she is a Jipi Qi, met thing of the past will not see that, and very stubborn, something he can never carry ask for help. But she has the soft heart, one of my injuries, and second, that children suffer, cry think she met these two.
- Cao Yubin in the eyes of his wife
his simple and honest man honest, not so many years, and my red and his face. I have complained about his selfishness, but both say girl, my dad my heart hurts you, but his mouth will not say. Over so many years, and feel their lives bitter, but did not enjoy too Laocao blessing.
- Chen Yun in the eyes of her husband