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a man out for 20 years, finally going home, the boss asked him: You are 20 years of wages to be three or advice? The man said the road tomorrow, tomorrow morning to give you the answer right? The boss said I could. Men did not sleep that night ... morning, his boss said: I want to three warnings. So the boss gave him three words. First, do not try to find a shortcut, there were no cheap thing, only down to earth is the best way ... Whatever it takes. Second, do not knows is not a good thing to do too much curiosity, there is likely you will have died. Third, do not make any impulsive decisions when, otherwise, this decision is likely to become your lifetime of regret. Having the boss to the man some money and three bread, and told: the biggest in the home after the eat bread. Men hit the road ... he was gone for several days ... the first half of bread, and did not take long encounter an intersection, he inquired: Which way does the ** Near? Passerby: it walked the path, near. Lu Renyi: walk on the path bar, safe. He can not wait to meet with his wife, then go down the lane. Not long to go to hear some passers-by near the downtown Bandit said,
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into the nine major means:
1, courage determination - to overcome the habit of indecision nothing
reason many people, the biggest problems is the lack of means of daring decision, always glance right and left, after thinking it over, so the best time they fail. Into a big success in the possibility of coming to see things, the courage to make major decisions, so a head start.
2, Challenge weaknesses - completely change their imperfections
everyone has weaknesses, can not be a major weakness of those who always stick to their own, no major changes in his life; can become a major event are always good at their own The weakness of the surgery, ability to transform itself into a super person. A company can correct its own flaws who can only be a loser!
3, overcome difficulties - from the failure group of successful capital
always face difficult life challenges,
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4, seize the opportunity - good selection, good at creating
opportunity is the greatest wealth. Some people waste the opportunity easily, so one has great potential, opportunity, slipped quietly ran into a major event is absolutely not allowed to slip away, and can jump toward the opportunity.
5, to play a strong point - do what you do best
a very weak ability of the person it is difficult to open the life situation,
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6, adjust the attitude - avoid emotional harm to the people themselves
negative attitude, in any case can not afford to pick and burden of life, because they can not face the frustration of a personal hygiene, while those on the high-speed into the big state of mind, even if Without any hope, they can see the ray of light of success.
7, immediate action - just saying no, a hundred times better than an operation
vain thought. Some people are \
8, good at communication - a clever use of human resources people do not know how to contact
bound to promote the power of relationships. One of the characteristics of those great things are: good by leveraging, by heat to create a successful situation, one pieces can be difficult to accomplishing things done to make them realize their life plan.
9, re-planning - points to a higher starting point
Life is a process, success is a process. If you satisfied with small success, it will promote the great success. Into a major event should know that the difficult process from small to large, so to achieve a small success, to continue to open the next life \
can speak any means, can lead to a result, but this result is not the best results, I am afraid it is difficult to say. Events are always selected as the best means to achieve the best results, which most people can do right and wrong. Therefore, the road to success, you want to become a major event, the first problem to be solved is: your means if you plan to promote the immediate success!
into nine major capability necessary
ability to survive the challenges: finding good answers in the real world ; ; ;
1, put right attitude, the courage to face the reality
reality for those who constantly complain about poor people, reality can not be desirable, just as prison life, both hands and feet bound, and bound body and mind, so often succumb to the pressure of reality, a weak person; and those who really great things, dare to challenge the reality is, in reality, their own temper viability, which is called strong!
Here, we can come to an experience of great things: to adapt to the changing reality of rapid change their ideas, the most important thing is we need to have an intelligent and flexible mind's eye, so people could live.
under the pressure of the real, if you change the concept, timely and forward,
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can not be separated even for a moment the reality of our bottom-up, with the reality of change, we must adapt their ideas, thoughts, actions and goals. This is a survival imperative.
If we have a way to change reality to fit our abilities and desires of the development needs are the most valuable.
2, so you have a strong self-control
made, is to overcome desire, not because of pressure on the heart a bit impetuous, experience things that are not desirable to explode.
a person unless the first control yourself or you will not be in control.
a successful event as long as the target man, knows what he wants, and then take action, tell yourself do not give up, success is only a matter of time only.
If you are in trouble or hinder the way, you go to face it and solve it, and then move on, so the more positive the more the problem will not. When you climb
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overcome the most difficult thing is their own, the meaning of these words is that the biggest obstacle to a person's success does not come from the outside world, but itself. Only control myself, to control the pressure to yield to the pressure in front of you.
3, the emotion into the box
one kind of rational generation of resistance is often subtle, but it effects a person's life is huge, this effect reflected from the many little things. We should try to eliminate their negative emotions, because it will give us not only cause physical and psychological harm, and in our road to success, and negative emotions can sometimes become a stumbling block.
To your success, you have the emotional into the rational case, you have to adapt to others, adapt to the situation, otherwise, you are not destined to become a major event, destined to be eliminated.
4, the power of thought alone can stimulate
alone if you know how, then, into the big people who are good at being alone - alone in the process in the power of inspired thinking.
low self-esteem can be overwhelming, like a mountain man and you will never silence can also be generated as a powerful forward momentum.
step ahead than others, to create a successful state of mind.
in alone, you should be thinking, do not always overstaffed.
5, pressure is the best incentive
who want to become a major event, because of lofty goals, the pressure may be greater. But Ruoyu into the event, to be able to withstand this pressure, the pressure as the driving force to promote life.
one of the most outstanding work is often the case out in the face of adversity made. People will want to have to do certain things. Must be done well, the firm does not do.
does not necessarily get good news, is not all lost a bad thing.
6, the transformation strain, have a way out
of change, good change, to adjust their programs of action, which is as big a way to adapt to reality.
a person does not deal with people and the superb skills, the circumstances did not mind all the bases, flexible means to the situation simply can not control the large, will be difficult to become a major event.
a person can see their status, attitude will balance the many, we can look to an objective view, understand the world, and adjust their behavior accordingly.
7, self-confidence is a strong pillar of life who
confidence sufficient ability to adapt to high and low adaptive capacity and vice versa.
general lack of confidence in some of the more serious people who are often psychosomatic symptoms, such as the eccentric, fear with people, talking too extreme, pessimism.
If the work experience of the more successful, then the confidence will be.
opportunity to exercise self-less successful, more self-confidence is weak, resulting in a serious inferiority complex.
nineteenth century thinkers Ralph Waldo Emerson said: \into your strengths on the lives of most people
stop at level: To eat and eat and ride the bus for the ride, for a career, to go home and go home.
not a major event into the event and those who differ only in some small action: spend 5 minutes a day reading, and more make a phone call, a little more effort, one that at the right time, performing on multiple charges a little effort, and more do some research, or in the laboratory test once more.
in action before you know whether you competent to this task.
no excuse can be interpreted as the will Why you still can not be qualified for a job a long time.
Whether you want to pursue what you have to force yourself to enhance the capacity to achieve goals.
spare no effort to practice, engage in active practice, it still spare no practice! Never stop learning, and be sure to apply the knowledge acquired in daily life.
9, to concentrate on doing one thing
If most people focus on a task focused, they can do this work well.
the great things is that traders who make decisions quickly and decisively, they are always the first to identify a clear goal and focus and dedication towards this goal.
time only concentrate on doing one thing, threw himself into and actively want it to succeed, so that your heart will not feel exhausted.
do you need to think of a big row of a small drawer in the drawer. Do not always think of all the drawers, but to focus on that you have to open the drawer. Means each man is not the same things, you can tell, there is a kind of a person means a person means to have a success on their own way. Numerous facts have shown that some people are too self-confident, sure miss their means to solve any problem, but do not know that this is often not have any effect. Therefore, they always feel that the goal of success is not getting away from the past, but actually getting away.
into 9 major essential attitude of mind
: positive
1. always thinking out ahead
2. do \little people \6. In the ordinary to do extraordinary things
7. to keep the young mind is very important
8. is always positive, active, enthusiastic attitude
II: diligent humility
1. Top Gun to think , down to earth to dry
2. Qin Jing industry, humility man
3. diligence than talent
4. hard-working breeds success, the lazy genius destroyed
5. develop a hard habits will be a lifetime benefit
6. have a hard, there is a harvest
7. perseverance and support to \The third state of mind: honest and trustworthy
1. honesty is the essence from their
2. honest and trustworthy is the big winner
3. in good faith to lay a successful foundation
4. sincere friendship will make your business more developed
5. a man should be upright conduct
6. honesty is as big a \be honest, with the enthusiasm to do things
mentality of the four: the courage to challenge
1. dare to challenge themselves, to overcome the demeaning psychological
2. challenges that can limit
3. persist in the end made by the courage, halfway is a coward
4. for the challenges provoked into a big confidence
5. Courage is the good way to overcome difficulties
6. Katsuhito by force, since the winner strong
7. persistence and perseverance is to become a major event The basic
8. perseverance great things, a little attitude no way out
Five: Six good cooperation
mind: balance
contentment of mind of Seven: the mentality of the eight
optimist: generous Nine guest,
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