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133936 2010 年 06 月 02 日 11:27 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (1) Category: Personal Diary
one, do not only care about test scores, test can not scold me bad?
\A fourth-grade girls said: \have something to do learning. the greater the pressure, the more I learn boring. \
Experts: Parents concerned about children's learning, the most important thing is to be concerned about the process,
官瘾 - Qzone日记, supervision, and to help children acquire knowledge and solid, and for the examination results, will have to be just normal. Especially when children test failure, it should help children find the cause, rather than to pressure. Now, many parents usually turn a blind eye on the children's learning, until that poor performance when anxious, angry children. This quick profit, not only can not help children solve the problem, but also to the children enormous psychological pressure, causing the child to the parents of the resistance. In addition, some parents can not correctly understand the difference between intelligence and interest of the child's differences, others full marks, but also test out their children, it is not rational.
Second, do not rush to throw a tantrum, even though I made a mistake can also listen to my explanation?
tell many children, especially boys, broke his things out of curiosity or accidentally due to mischievous trouble, the parents often scolded or beaten. They think that sometimes mistakes for a reason,
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Experts: Parents should first recognize, good boy a good boy, naughty children are not bad kids. Do not let children younger parents, he often talked down to lessons children should learn the child as an equal person to treat the idea of listening to children inside to their own values, social experience to engage in dialogue,
分享DOTA 屠夫铃声 - Qzone日志, to lead the children think, make choices to help them grow up healthily. If at every turn to speak with authority, violence, coercion, it will hurt the child's self-esteem, affect a child's physical and mental health, and in its young mind to violence rooted plant.
Third,
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Experts: Parents always want their children to be the best, they are often impractical, do not consciously want to stick their own children everything, which is typical of the hopeful state of mind. As everyone knows,
前任和现任的区别 - Qzone日志, this attitude does great harm to the child. Because when the parents are always demanding perfection, and how the child can be done to make parents satisfied, they will have a deep sense of failure. This feeling will seriously harm the child's self-confidence. Psychological experiments show that the parents find their children the advantages of good, heartfelt appreciation and encouragement, is an important driving force children to grow up.
Fourth, do not always nagging learning, can give me some fun time?
high school pupils and students to their parents, \Have students report: \water, rest of the time not to me, not to mention the free entertainment. \
five, not so curious, can allow me to keep a little secret and personal space?
Some of the students reflected
parents want to be \In short, they believe that children can not have privacy.
Experts: to make such thoughtful questions and more are the children. With age, children will naturally require more and more of their own independent space. However, many parents are not aware of this. They have been seeing the children as their own accessories, never had them as people to be treated independent personality. Hours in children, the problems caused by this attitude is not clear that when children grow up to a certain age, gross interference in the child personal space can cause resentment, making the children their parents closed the door.
six, not bad faith, asked me to do that you can not do?
this caused a lot of children's sympathy. \lie, I criticized him, but suffer his curse. \
Experts: Family Education is the greatest impact on children, the key lies in the monasteries and subtle. Parents not to tell the kids how to do that can, and actually more than persuasion is more important is teaching by example. Research shows that no matter what the parents saying one,
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seven, not too much interfere with my friends, I can not let people make friends with good grades?
a student said in an interview: \distress. \
Experts: children learn to make friends is an important way to participate in social life. In this regard, parents should be concerned about,
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eight, do not ignore my interests, my choice of extra-curricular class, can not listen to my advice?
many primary and secondary students reflect on a variety of after school extra-curricular courses, and many of course is not his like, forced on the parents.
Experts: Interest is the best teacher a child taught. Parents should respect children's interests and wishes. In addition, the report should not bite off more extra-curricular course, if the result of an excessive burden to the child to rebellious, the result will be counterproductive.
nine, not to be so vain, can not lock me around the exhibition as a vase?
\Twelve-year-old children is a lot of common sense.
Experts: When small children can let the mercy of adults, can increase with age, Awakening of self-consciousness, and they themselves,
new balance 574, the people around them have their own point of view, particularly evident after puberty. Parents should pay attention to this change, to adjust the ways and means to treat the child,
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ten, not simple and rude, when frustration when I can not give me a little comfort?
many students do not want to communicate with their parents, do not want to tell their parents, in fact, because there are lessons. If students tell: sometimes in contradiction with the students or the outside by a bullying, go home and tell their parents, not only get comfort, but was reprimanded, \such a thing to not tell their parents. Some students also reflect the setbacks do not want to tell their parents because parents always want to intervene, make things more complicated.
Experts: children to grow up eventually, independence to face social life. When they begun to taste the frustration, the greatest need is for parents comfort and guidance, rather than fuel and \Encountered such a thing, parents should be analyzed together with their children and guide their children the proper understanding and calm dealing with relationships, foster self-confidence.
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