56 -year-old unmarried woman adopted 32 abandoned

Fei mind the children needed more communication.

■ Social Watch in Puning, Zhang Fei, 56 years has remained stubbornly supporting a particular family --- Ten National People's Congress and adopted her 9 children. This is her 9 children from the bridge, road, garbage, etc. to retrieve the abandoned, most of these children suffer from albinism, heart disease, cleft lip and other diseases.
Fei has never been married 30 years ago from the first abandoned baby adopted so far, after over 32 abandoned children were adopted.
Fei I have an abandoned baby 56 years ago by a street in Shandong aunt named Wu picked up, raising to ten old, good-hearted Aunt Wu passed away, she began to rely on do day laborers, nannies a living. Childhood experience of being abandoned by her leaving the shadow of a great mind, an adult she was afraid of marriage, did not dare to start a family.
the same fate for her extra sympathy for abandoned children, from the age of 26, she adopted the first abandoned, and abandoned children who are determined to find a warm home. 20 years ago, she picked up with two children, all the way by picking up trash from the south of Shandong, Guangdong Puning to settle down after this, she established the woodshed in the Family members reached the peak of more than twenty. 5 years ago, with financing from multilateral Puning government to the money, as Fei and her children buy a house Sanshiyiting, Fei more solid feel the warmth of her home.
But every family has the cupboard, the composition of this special home from the abandoned children even more so, where not only the story is only true feelings, more real trouble. With his age, getting old, Chang Fei, more and more confusion. She told reporters, simply to feed these children was not her goal, she hopes that these children grow up to become useful to society. But for now, due to physical and mental defects and the psychological shadow of the abandoned, these children grow up and social integration is not smooth, in which there is a girl committed suicide after a setback. She can put up with hardships to raise the baby, but how education can not do anything.
confused a little and after the kids leave home contact

Fei child raised the largest in 31 years, adult children are away from home before and after work, Most of the children rarely go out with her contact, left her endless care.
order to understand the situation of children, she often requires making inquiries and found that they are not very successful in the community. Sometimes asked to be taken in the children outside, hard working and no profits are made, Fei will be uncomfortable for several days. Occasionally, the children received a phone call, she would say to them:
hit the most so Fei is one day in 1992, has long been out of work the second daughter came back secretly took five teenage siblings, Zhang Fei was crazy to drive around to look. Later, she heard a runaway girl was tricked by paying the money came close to being sold, the child so he chose to commit suicide, so Fei extremely painful.
her own review that the children managed the last song, so start the children to stay strict discipline, but the effect is not obvious, the children still do not love learning, always wanted to go out to work as soon as possible , and for adolescent children, her tone of voice if the key, they will soon pack up and leave home, which makes Fei was very confused.
confused two children did not love reading introverted

Fei loves her children, she worried that children will know the pain of his personal life, so never mention the child's life experience, but also allow them to easily contact with the outside people, they are the slightest fear of harm. She often tell their children, But at the same time, excessive protection of letting the children are too shy and reticent, was not very lively, cheerful, and she worried that they will be difficult to integrate into society, people called home. hitting them, they only reluctantly picked up the book. Later, she came up with a solution: Let the children a good academic record Fang Fang (a pseudonym) to supervise counseling younger siblings to learn, but Fanfan quick temper, her brothers and sisters who will not listen to angry to play them. Later, Fang Fang to Puning one school, a week to go home once the kids are basically no oversight.
reporter also found that children Fei's character manifested varying degrees of shyness, low self-esteem, but stubborn, possessive, and other weaknesses, Fei although it was flawed character, children, do not know how to communicate with the children. Children have their minds not to tell her mother, Fei to this as Fei children school supplies are also scarce.
confused three sick child who needed medical expenses come from?
Fei are raising children of 9, 7 is a sick child, an albino, a congenital heart disease, squint one eye, and four lip, of which only two The children have cleft lip move past the first surgery, the other boy had not yet received treatment. But to give these sick child medical treatment, Fei that point certainly unable to support small income.
Fei fixed monthly family income is the government guaranteeing payment of five or six hundred dollars of gold, and basic family living expenses each month will only 3,000 yuan, mainly by long-term social enthusiasts funding to maintain the children's school fees are free. Due to the current sick child, child care and more, Fei has no energy to go out picking up trash to sell for money,mbt shoes store, most of the time at home to take care of the children's lives and learning. As a stable income population, the children eat once a few days the meat.
now, Fei is the most anxious children with congenital heart disease, she told reporters: If not treated in time, the older, harder to keep the child's life. Fei home, saw the two-month old baby eat rice soup, they immediately bought a box of milk given to children, and also sent ten thousand yuan for living expenses. Back to Guangzhou, which will be started for the sick children to contact the hospital. May 5, Fei with three sick children to hospital in Guangzhou armed police check, is expected to relief efforts in the hospital after the treatment costs of three children and several million gap, the Guangdong public Xugu Student Association organizations who are actively caring for the child medical treatment contributions. Informed prior to press time, a friendly person ready to contribute ninety thousand yuan to the children in treatment.
four daughters college expenses confused how to do?
reporter found that adoption of abandoned babies and Zhang Fei than good intentions,louis vuitton handbags, her child-rearing than the actual capacity is weak, the daughter of Fang Fang Fei favorite to recognize this problem, so strongly against the mother and then adopt an abandoned baby.
Fang Fang Zhang Fei 18 years ago in the Puning is to retrieve the daughter of a local. Her good academic performance at home is also very obedient. But a few years she was particularly opposed to the adoption of Fei and then abandoned, she asked her mother: reporter in her room to see this in your own words a few lines of encouragement: very neat, placed above the 30 to be collected works, stories, exercises set.
Fang Fang's class teacher, told reporters after the school learned that the case of Fang Fang, active waive her tuition fees, accommodation, Fang Fang was a quiet, introverted, self-esteem of students particularly strong,louis vuitton outlet, the current More than 800 liberal arts schools in the middle and upper grades, which she often recorded in the weekly fluctuations in their results. Deterioration of the requirements himself to catch up and progress of the fuel are encouraged to continue on their own. Fang Fang schools are very concerned about mental health,nike shox, school of confidentiality to her family, also intends to arrange for a student to do her cheerful at the same table to give her a positive psychological impact. Fang Fang schools that smooth admitted to universities.
However, the cost of college Fangfang how to solve? Fei said she thought of this, will feel worried.
Jinan University, the leaves in the Applied Psychology Research Professor, Chang Fei's worth vigorously carry forward the spirit of great love, but to help children have healthy growth point of view, the ability of Fei did not. He suggested that Zhang Fei children receive professional guidance of child psychology tutor to help children change the timid, inferior character. Prof Ip initiative that volunteers should be actively involved in helping poor children in the healthy growth of solitary action, because college students can help their children in school, while a number of interactive games can enhance each other's feelings and relationships, so that these children become more cheerful.
Guangdong Province, Xu Gu Wang Chung Student Association President Tom said: family education, distorted social attitudes so that they can intentionally and unintentionally discriminated against, has the effect of unhealthy psychological.

President Wang also said that Xugu student will be in addition to surgery raise money for children, but also will continue to organize volunteers to communicate with their children communicate, inspirational gift books, to track the child care. through love summer camp, Guangzhou tours and other activities, please give their children a psychological professional, scientific and other knowledge of the universal, open the door for them understanding of the community window.

text / Chart Nanfang Daily reporter Zhang Mei

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