Some time antecedent, a prominent education experts, education specialists, Dr. Dong Jinyu success came to Harbin, made a family education and parent-child relationship on the report. Dr. Dong Jinyu said that if the relationship between parents and children is customary, good, that parents and children are equal in personality, is reciprocal esteem, mutual understanding, mutual aid, mutual confidence, the parents love their children unconditionally, Children understand how to Thanksgiving, then the parents do not how to educate children, the child's academic performance will be far onward. Conversely, if condescending attitude to criticism of the parents scolding their children, between parents and children are mutually hostile, do not believe each other, then more efforts to educate parents, children, child has a problem more presumable.
the relationship among parents and children is to school children are the foundation of the lives of children living in the invisible space. The growth of children in this space plays a decisive role. Family education real trouble is the action among parents and children reinforce each additional, influence each other. But 98% of the parents did not comprehend the relationship between the invisible affect on children, in the hard to educate their children to If from Peking University, Tsinghua find 100 emphatic students, and then inquire the parents how their children good education, so the question will be very dissatisfied. All likelihood would say, in truth, how did education. While casually seeing nigh us, dozens of students learning a shambles, and then work to their parents, these parents will say that these cursed child, let him the best kindergarten, basic, navel,
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Dr. Dong said that whether a person likened to a tree, the crown represents the people's knowledge and capabilities, the roots characterize the people spirit. Now we have too many parents and teachers elapse men working with the crown. In fact,
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first, self-esteem. The spirit of self-esteem is the spine of a person. With self-esteem, people can like human beings alive. Self-esteem is the tree of human life the great roots. Help children build self-esteem is actually very uncomplicated, is to respect children, Keep Cool, how to tell if the leading of the parents speak, on how to speak with the child, the child will not feel respected. Followed by the unconditional love of children. No self-respecting child will not take the initiative to partake in group activities, they do not respect others, not respect for themselves. They do not have the desire to excel in the team. And many of our parents hurt children's self-esteem in the post, but also encourages children to Tsinghua University Beijing University, it is dreaming.
Second, the self-confidence. Self-confidence is a person's subjective state of mind when act things. Parents want their children to ego to study. Many parents permit their children to study well, children learn by family, staring at each day, forcing the children homework. This is exactly what your child at home without peace of mind, physical fitness can not be restored in the home,
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Third, sense of duty. Responsibility is to allow kids to have a stable state of mind, from childhood to do their own words said to be proficient to convey. How to Develop sense of responsibility, that is, his own childhood to do the things that you can not replace him to do. He did bad we can aid him but can not replace him. Sense of responsibility is a condition inherent in people self-discipline. A person with responsibility to grow.
Fourth, the initiative and enterprising spirit. Develop proactive spirit is to improve children via self-struggle to fulfill the cerebral state of self-worth. Children to do asset in due time, parents must be pragmatic, timely recognition of the child, let him feel that they do the right asset happy. Let the children slowly to fashion a stable happiness habits to succeed. There is also tear off the child's posterior, do not say, father and mother of the skirmish is for the kids. Such children must not be provocative.
Fifth, the learning interest. The biggest task is to exercise parents of the child's interest in learning. All the people kas long aschildren learn to learn on their own initiative, which requires parents to cause children to grow up power, use induction, persuasion, encouragement and admission of these instruments influenced him out of intrinsic motivation. Dong said the educator, now stresses the importance of education to learn some much. When a male base in learning is a bitter emotion or the feeling of pleasure depends fully above the life of his infancy experience. Children in childhood, by the course the game activity and way to learning, which narrate the children that learning is amusement, is fun, is fun. Children will gradually interlocked to the study and pleasure. Children also learn a mini someone to be complimented after the also, the role of pleasure in two, children tin learn, the more the merrier, the extra fun the more learning. This is an of the greatest learning the decree should be the first to ascertain happiness. This is why some children learn not feel exhausted all daytime, some children learn meantime quite painful cause. Learning the laws of the biggest, not by the will to study hard, but detect joy in learning, into the bored state. Can do this, the key lies in our education and guidance of parents.
Sixth, the rules. Traditional Chinese education is to allow children to listen to the absolute father, mother, we used high-pressure way to the child tied it at the expense of children's self-esteem, self-confidence for the price. And children to have an concert,
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Dr. Dong mentioned the parent-child narrations, and a few high-voltage lines are firmly untouchable. The 1st root is apt overlook the presence of kid, no to say the problem of child care, do not hear to the child's interpretation, which would break children's self-esteem and trust. Ignore the subsistence of child maltreatment than children is too a solemn habit. The second namely the basis of high-voltage devastating objection. The outcome is a child who had hoped to obtain rid of the failings, but instead the child's failings to the nailed down. The third root of high-voltage lines are forcing children. Parents compel children to do things namely ambition not merely smother the child's initiative and enterprising spirit and amuse in learning, but also the formation of passive habits. Our parents forever used to stop the chatter is not the child, and not realize all the rendition of today's children, is reasoned at parental education.
many parents feel that their work is very engaged every day, many educational philosophy know everything and do not have time to implement. In this regard, Dr. Dong said that, in fact, communicate with their children every day and do not absence more time, he asked the children four problems a day, one educate has a good thing happen? This problem is to navigate children's amounts, let the children calculate the problem more on the assured aspects of thought. The second is what you do well in educate? This is to give children a chance to show their so an appraisal of their own children. Third, what is the day you harvest? Zhe Shirang synopsis of the day for their children, and their own conclusions, today, I really gain something. Fourth, what can I do for you? This is to understand that learning is the child of his own things, is to have children find themselves with problems which really have difficulty, parents can reach out and help you. Parents always at your side, always love you. Down four answers asked every day, the children certainly do not feel the parents wordy, only care almost their own learning, while also allow children will one day want to say full, meditation of related to the parents happily interchange it. This is why we have stressed, in order to alteration the child, parent-child relationship should be stressed is that with positive parent-child relationship, children will learn the state is affirmative.
anybody is Let the child feel the unconditional adore of his parents, to him be praise, encouragement, praise, spiritual nutrition into the child's idea, he can shake ascending, generosity and evolution.
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