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2196948 2010 年 10 月 03 日 21:25 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (0) Category: A Beautiful Mind
family life is everyone's first school, parents are the first teachers in life. As each person is born with a white down, they are with their parents every step of the educational growth of the brand. Of adolescent mental health psychiatrist that the children are sick, the injection of a parent.
different ways, can lead to parenting children of different personality traits, our current way of family education are the following:
a) of the doting type rearing
these parents loved their children too, too concerned about the children is characterized by excessive care and attention. The children are responsive to any request, trying to meet the blind accommodation, docile and obedient. Doting parents to send their children into the type of special status, all subordinated to and serve the children, inadequate to meet the requirements of life and aspirations of their children, but everything to do it.
doting parents of lead-based child emotionally unstable, weak, weak, incompetent, easy to form the arrogance, self-willed, stubborn character, or easy to form dependent, weak, inferior character.
(b) authoritarian parenting styles
parents ask their children to this type of absolute rule set to follow their parents do not encourage children to ask questions, explore and adventure and take the initiative to do things. The performance of children less warmth, and strict implementation of the child's punishment. The family thought the child was missing training, but also there are no warmth from their parents, they did not know how to properly express their emotions thoughts, or life skills in interpersonal ability, you may encounter more difficulties.
hold this attitude of parents rearing children are often forced by their parents wishes, but a penalty to enforce. Children not allowed to have errors or mistakes, or have been subjected to beating, cursing, intimidation or other penalties. .
(c) of the conniving type rearing
permissive attitude taken by the parents of some only consider their own work, and some parents just want to earn more money every day, and some parents, most of the time after work to watch on TV or playing mahjong. These families of children, lack of emotional exchange and attractive. Parents take their children indifferent, laissez-faire attitude. Words and deeds of the children not strictly bound by the requirements and necessary, the child's shortcomings and mistakes of turning a blind eye, left to its own development and their children have done something wrong, nor is criticism of timely education and proper guidance.
conniving parents caused their children based stubborn, undisciplined, poor social adjustment, easy to form a cold, aggressive, and emotionally disturbed character, cynical or negative character.
due to lack of parental care and education so that children think they are unimportant in the family lose their sense of belonging. In addition,
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(d) democracy-based rearing
these parents use democratic means to educate their children. Parents are gentle,
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democratic type of parents that their children emotional stability, emotional, strong-willed, gregarious, confident, easy for children to form positive, progressive, enthusiastic, friendly personality.
is obvious that a psychiatrist recommended that the democratic type of rearing. Way of bringing this type of growth in the best interests of the child.
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