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Reprinted from 258540192 at 8:37 p.m. on February 1, 2008 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (1) Category: Personal Diary When men and marriage, a girl, once married, which is eternal sense. Find what kind of partner, is unmarried first consideration of each issue. Marriage between men and women to consider many factors, including age difference is a very important content. When the number of single friends mate encountered this very real problem, they like older people or small, was the family's objections, some of the pressure of public opinion, but they not willing to give up, can not make choose, and so in times of trouble, not knowing how to escape.
This is very common in the marriage. Difference between male and female marriage age, in the end that what is appropriate it? Numerology is how to understand it?
First, from a fundamental point of view of marriage is a fate, but fate is how scarce the. There is no reason often said that love, there is no reason to hate. Big crowd, two men met each other has been able to produce sparks of love, with the cycle point of view, must be revised to the fate of past life, love life can be met. Modern point of view, certainly has a mutual appreciation, mutual attraction, with the resonant frequency of the information. Some Men and women feel good at the beginning of time, is your situation I would, without any conditions, so the feeling that time is accurate and innocent, is in love or marriage after a good foundation.
Secondly, from the fortune tellers point of view, men and women there is no age limit for marriage. Chinese Lunar Calendar, generally regarded as a time of 12 years,
timberland uk, the small cycle, so in less than 12 years of age are regarded as peers, in this context can easily generate the feelings of the vast majority of Chinese couples are within this age category This is the first mating area. If a difference of more than 12 years old 24 years old, although two small cycle, but also less prone to emotional aspects, such couples are not uncommon, this is the second mating area. If a difference of more than 24 years old, it belong to two generations, and have relatively low chance of feeling, and if there is friendship between generations, young and old love, or the result of some objective factors, it is the third mating area.
marriage of these three major regions, each with their own mating features. Even the difference between the first region within 12 years, not all are suitable marriage age, but also an unfortunate fact of marriage. After the relevant statistics, the highest divorce rate in 12 years is precisely within the region. While the other two regions of high divorce rate marriage age but is very low. From a practical point of view, the low age gap were young, all do not give, and do not convinced, and do not understand, is the primary factor leading unhappily married; Furthermore, because the young cardiac uncertain, often occurs faithless, do whatever they want, love affair, etc., also contributed to the marriage because unfortunately a factor; there, because he (she) had a young capital, that love can be repeated, so I do not cherish the fate of two men and established marriage, and ultimately led to the the tragedy of divorce; then there are two stable economic base, work and life too much pressure, leading to abnormal psychological or emotional control, the couple often bickering over trivia, and ultimately hurt feelings, which parted ways.
contrast, the age gap between husband and wife, as a large party mature, psychological and economic base are relatively good, and not easily moved by external conditions, cherish love, caring, inclusive patient, a small party very popular pet, life, worry less, easy to enjoy the happiness of marriage, the happiness will be infected with a large party, so empathy, sharing joy, so they tend to live very happy, unhappy marriage rate is very low .
from the traditional concept of point of view, not very ancient in China care about the age difference between husband and wife. Was mainly to see whether the We all know the old society, many couples are relatively large age difference, usually the small men and women, men and women in the region of the second marriage for the majority. This is due to the impact of traditional concepts and numerology. The reason why marriage gap in modern society, from a certain sense, is due to the so-called Gender equality have been beyond reproach, but if applied to the marriage, and to some This seemingly
fact in the traditional marriage, the ancients have long exceeded this Numerology on the ground together with the Kuni TRW triple to the gap did not take into account the age, but let it, revel and opportunities. According to the ancient concept of
, TRW to marriage is on the upper joint of the marriage, but their age difference they are nothing but great. Such as the tiger in 1974 Jiayin women, to go with the pig in 1959, Yi Hai male, had a combined constitute Heavenly Stems, Earthly Branches Hai Yin together, a difference of 15 years old, belongs to the second mating area. Reality, the second region are also many couples marry, such as with a woman named Jin Yong Lin Leyi life together, she was the hotel where the waiter,
womens timberland boots, when he was 16 years old, younger than 27 years of Jin Yong, We secretly called her Love at first sight. After they got married, Jin Yong send a small beautiful wife to study in Australia. So far, still accompanied by Lin Yong travel and lecture around the girl. Asked him how to run Another example is the marriage Xiaotun Li Ao and Wang, Wang Li Ao Xiaotun smaller than 29 years, but the age did not become an obstacle to their love. Li Ao and Wang Xiaotun love after 8 years of tests, which the middle of the wind and rain can be expected there are unforeseen, and finally they took marriage hall. Her otherworldly innocence, he was brilliant. They laughed and looked at people's suspicions truly live. Although the couples above age gap, but the culture and love of knowledge is common. There are 96
Rat Rat year female, to go with 61 years of cattle Boxer male, it should be a difference of 35 years old, belonging to the third mating area, it sounds like impossible, but today's society, the difference also a lot of people over the age of 30, such as husband and wife Weng Fan Yang, age difference of 54 years.
many years, marriage between men and women in society regard ignore the real issues, forget the age value in real terms only. Essence of marriage is not between men and women age, but is to be happy or not. Peers, not necessarily to happiness, non-peers may not be unhappy. Measure of marital happiness or not is not the age, but rather whether the heart to heart,
timberland boots sale, whether the fall in love, whether to each other, whether Juanqimei ... ... so the love of men and women can be happy together as long as the feeling, you do not care about age, a person other than the two nor do not understand or obstruct necessary.
In addition, from the perspective of prenatal and postnatal care, the age gap between husband and wife, children born to high intelligence, good health, because his father mature wisdom and genetic health of the mother to the offspring, the Nobel Prize age difference between parents of winners more than 15 years of age, the parents of Confucius, China's godfather more than 50 years age difference. The more the age gap between the small, as next of kin as marriage, children born will be marked with a number of discount quality, which is today's society, a concept well known.
The age gap between what is the most suitable marriage, summary, or the second mating area of view is most appropriate that the most stable long-term marriage. Area, followed by the first marriage, this marriage to change. Re-marriage of the third area, such marriages are rare.
in the first region, but also pay attention to the appropriate age, habits, respectively three, five and seven is more appropriate, but this is not absolute. If you put aside the age
concept of marriage is the most scientific attention to numerology with the five elements, to avoid the Earthly Branches of the criminal impulse. TRW is to co-co, Luk triple, Heavenly has five joint is a joint,
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method is used to the annual Lunar born to see, such as Bing-Chen was born in 76 years the boys, such as Xin with 81 years of girls, which is to co-TRW, commonly known as , 87 Dingmao in women, such as Saigon with 82 years male, 86 years Bingyin women, such as men with 71 years Xinhai, are also to co-TRW, are the numerology of the upper mating. Although some irregularities in dry, may phase in or phase grams, but as long as the consistency of the Earthly Branches can also be, for example 85 Yi Chou of women, can be equipped with Prince on 72 male; 83 Guihai of women, men can be equipped with Jiayin 74 years; 84 Jiazi In women, can be equipped with 73 Guichou Year Male; 88 Boshin in women, can be equipped with 81-Year Male Xin; 89 Baba on women, men can be equipped with Gengshen 80 years and more. Of course, this is in general from the point of view, if they can combine their overall state of character, or at least two columns with the state point of view, it would be more accurate specific.
summary can be seen that the essence of marriage is not the quantity but of quality. The so-called number is the number of times the age of majority and Marriage. Quality is so-called fate, feeling and understanding. I believe no one wants to pursue a number of marriage. To achieve the marriage of scientific and rational, we must first change our concepts,
timberland outlet, not only young people to change, and the elders have to change, never understanding into understanding, and never support into support, as have real love and marriage, is the real free marriage, it may achieve the ideal marriage.
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