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151691 2007 年 04 月 23 日 16:25 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (0) Category: Personal Diary
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one, you care about each other more
you in a relationship, but not to determine each other's ideas; you think you are right, he seemed to disagree; he is not when you want him, you if he did not difference, What does this mean?
love is not perfect, long continue, you will love hungry,
nike air force one high, you will feel controlled by the other side,
air force one low, you will feel angry, cheated and suffering.
Second, you love you love each other's potential
the other's potential, rather than the other really, the way you love each other's future might look like, he is not your partner, but the object of your transformation.
every time we would ask for marital counseling, If the other party fifty years will not change, you will be satisfied? If you still want to change each other, then they would feel more satisfied, it is not love, but gambling as a bet with both sides happy.
you and When a person contacts, to love and respect each other's Benxiang, rather than his future look like, you can expect him to continue to grow, but you must be satisfied with the way he is.
Third, you want to help each other
you often feel sorry for each other? Do you think they have a responsibility to help each other perk up? you will not be afraid to leave the other party if he will not stand against? If so, you probably is a br> , you are grateful, he will, like the feelings of such a rescue mission, not a sound, balanced emotions.
The key to remember here is , you must be proud of each other, your partner do not want your rescue, but you really know him.
four, the other as the object of worship
director fell in love with a young female star , professor of college students fell in love with the secretary in love with the boss ... ..., fell in love with the object of worship, this feeling is difficult to maintain normal, because of equal treatment between the two men can not.
both men and women must be treated equally, I do not mean status, but the attitude,
air force one shoes, not idolize each other.'ll love the object of worship, often self-confidence is low, they feel very bad.
five, you just are attracted
everyone looks the other will be this way, right? If you find yourself being attracted to each other to a character, to ask ourselves if there is no other pair of big blue eyes, magnetic voice ... ... If the other party not a model, does not play Basketball ... ..., I will tell him (her) together? man is the first productivity
appearance of six short-term opportunity to be together day and night you and your partner share a
work, often with overtime , so you feel in love with each other ... .... you go on vacation for three weeks, also came to know a man on vacation, you feel like falling in love ... .... short morning till evening, in exceptional circumstances is a piece of hash, not the rule, such feelings can not be sustained, because the short time I felt I could not make you fully understand each other's personality.
seven, in order to select the object
rebellious parents did with you always stressed the need to to find a rich object, but why are you poor wretch every boyfriend; young parents strict discipline you, but why every girlfriend you were free; young father imparting instruction, communication incense is the most important thing, but why are you The girlfriend is not unable to have that, do not want ... ...
If the object of your choice, always make parents angry, you probably just want to treason, what do you think will come back to prove, when you can not control their own choice, you are not truly love each other,
nike air force 1, this relationship is doomed no results.
eight, the other party is not free themselves
this point I leave to the last, because it can not be emotional. Choose life partner The first premise is - the other is a .
If you love the man promised to break up earlier, and another woman; or he says he does not love that woman, and he loves you; or to accept his original object of your existence,
air force 1 high, they do not intend to break up, but he wants to be with you for a while; or he just broke up, but may be reunited ... ..., these are not freelance.
married or not and object communicate with others,
air force one high, no matter what the excuse, the results are the same, you are doomed to heartbreak. Do not forget, you are simply part of another person with the left.
choice in your hands, the responsibility on you, you picked the right person. If you have contacts the object, and you are one of the above mentioned eight emotions, to get counseling, do not waste time, there are better objects for you.