Editor's Note: A childhood friendship, a warm care, a warm blessing. Moved in the mother's strong, strong in the face of the back, the children, the mother can pay all their own. Bless you friend, bless the child, bless you, I believe everything will be fine! Sincere and moving article, recommended everyone to enjoy! 1, tonight,
Christian Louboutin pas cher, I sent you the last message. I do not know now is where you run around, just as you prayed in his heart, bless. You back to my message, then you say you are in Hangzhou airport, soon to fly back to Guangzhou.
September, I was wet and windy here at the moment of the night, the wind hitting the windows, almost broke into a. A taste of wet room, no spreading of the marginal. I and the kids hiding in bed, dodging the rain that the wind whistling. At a time when you are alone in a foreign land the airport, waiting on that way home, and home, who will stand by for you, who handed you a cup of hot tea, or hot for you a bowl of noodles? I know, go back, you turn on the light is still open, their fatigue and exhaustion to an unloaded, and that he accompanied his sleep.
At this point, since you feel bad, and does not, should have been distressed for you.
2, before the National Day last year, you come to call. You want to go relax, intended to go abroad, but the whim like a trip back in Hainan. I say welcome, as long as you like you are happy, at any time to. The next day you're flying, and I went to the airport you. Standing in the airport exit, I looked to the crowd, did not see you, and you, they are waved in the crowd shouted my nickname. That was thirteen years after we met. You still so beautiful, a submissive and hip hair, the same as the waterfall behind him dressed in black (child you always that Japanese doll heads, we are accustomed to), just laughed at his face with a little fine fine wrinkles, it is inadvertently give you years of the mark, right? In addition, no trace can be used to summarize your years.
3, a few years ago I went to Guangzhou, not seen you, you go to the United States, living in San Francisco for two years. Then you tell me, you divorce, child with his father in his home by several aunts with Chaozhou. No wonder, I call your original home phone, that should be your ex-husband's man surprised me make the call, he told me, you have moved. It turned out that you have not told me, you have divorced.
I asked: Are you willing to children of a person over there? Side of the phone you voice choked with sobs. I know that the child is suffering from autism, you have take the kids almost every corner of the country's major hospitals, but where patients have been cured of? You are a very devoted woman, you can say you are successful, but the child has become your heart's a scar. Walking down the street and see other people's children and parents of small hand holding a large hand, to enjoy their grandchildren, your heart will be waves of pain. And your character, you do not like to say too much on others, never complained to the people, almost all of the love you poured their children, while hard work, in order to earn more money to the children see a doctor.
4, that he is a promising young architect, is the person you have ever loved. I've seen him once, when you going to get married with him to the side of the Qiongzhou Strait, see your parents. He is out to children from rural areas, with their own efforts, read the university, he was the only one university person. Previously, he has no job performance, you With your ability, kept encouraging him to help him, give him money Chaozhou rural home mailing to parents and sisters, build houses, improve living conditions. Everyone admired his parents' home to have a good daughter. His career began to get better, you feel very comforted my heart, who think your children are suffering from autism, and that many of you sick of spending money, but you did not give up the child's treatment. Perhaps you spent the time and effort and work of a child who, one day you find that his changes. A finding that the time he has stuck too: he fell in love with a bar Peijiunvlang, hauling around a child.
you smile, you think he began to work, but is due to stress and loneliness in life was flirtation,
doudoune pas cher, you say you can forgive him, after all, you are also at fault, and perhaps you ignore his feelings. But you also found that he was not so simple flirtation, he listened to your words several days after the trance, you say he has been deeply in love with that Peijiunvlang, he can not leave her. You are shocked, you do not believe, but he has repeatedly position is true. That you cry. You sad that he gave up the family cause you are number one wife, sad that he should be a Peijiunvlang to give up your beautiful, you have to live up to love, to live up to your original vows of love . You feel like a knife in the heart blowing.
thought the night, only night, you said we divorce, look at you like pain, I fulfill you. He surprised your decision.
5, you and I was very young know the age of seven, we learn on the same year. Thirty years as your friend, I know you may look very weak, but you also often within the heart is so strong, I am humbled that strong. Is the experience of your father you know a lot of vicissitudes. Graduated from Tsinghua University, your father, right down by as many years, the countryside, many people despise you, despise you, your mother often came home crying, but you always comfort your mother, a very young age you have seem so strong. At that time I often your home, because the reason your father, your home is very simple, but clean up your mother was very clean and tidy, your father's house a few bookcases, accounted for a large position. Bookcase Reed a lot of books,
polo ralph lauren, I often bookcase on Pushkin's poetry, Ba Jin, Ouyang Shan's novel put it down. I grew to know your personality, looks weak people always want to protect you too, you with her beautiful and melancholy eyes, always reminds me of the movie But I also know another side of your willful and strong, have you admit defeat, never easy to bow to any people and things. You choose a divorce and moved out of that you have well-run house, then a stick in the end you think you can love leave.
6, after the divorce, you are while working, looking for the child to hospital for treatment, but still no effect. You a little discouraged. Looking good man your father to rely on you, do not live alone one person, let a man help you with child care. You heard go, your father angry: You are not to wait until I met you find a destination Marx? You listened to my heart very sad. So promised the pursuit of a Chinese man in San Francisco to San Francisco. There, you do not rely on others to live, you eat on their own hands. You washed the bowl in a restaurant, others did tutor, had a child with someone else, but in fact, you have relatives there, and you never had to trouble them. After contact with the man and heart to heart, you find that people are Dandyism disciples, and you do not like most people. You say be friends, do the couple may not last long. So you came back. After the back case of unit system, you buy a length of service, into the ranks of the unemployed. Later, you with many years of work experience and supply and marketing relationships with some of the companies had something to do. You always give me the message that you tired, so hard, these are nothing, often late at night, you jealously guarding the empty house, it was his original failure to do so is a woman, the mother is failure.
7, the day after you return to Hainan, the students gathering. You drank too much alcohol, and taking out a cigar with the boys, good to hear you sing, sing all those sad songs, sing my heart for the pain with you in waves. I know your heart bitter.
students send you back to the night my house, you smile and they say goodbye. Back home, you do not let my husband stay with us, he was rushed to bed. The bedroom door, you just head down, quietly cry. You miss a distant son, then eleven years old who do not know how to communicate with the son, you said your son is very handsome, and why it happens to fall into the poor sick child's body. You say now is not old, you will make more money for child medical treatment, would also like to take the kids to a remote place to live,
chaussure louboutin pas cher, away from the hustle and bustle of the city, away from trouble, but they feared not take care of their sick children ,
moncler femme, the children left home do not know the way home (you say Guangzhou, have had such things, no autistic child out of the house and come back), but also feared that if the sudden illness of a child at night, you will know what to do. You say you have a good man, really know how to care for you, want you to be his wife. I say it Well, one more person to help you take care of children. You smile: If I Xiangjia Ren, married to go out every minute, if he takes the kids, a big difference, not to mention, that the child is autistic child.
Perhaps no one can understand you, understand your situation your mother's mood, you always say you do not like what other people sad, you see only your success dignitaries strong side.
night, you cried very sad, I am speechless.
next day, you are right, his back went the jolly, cooking for us to eat. You say, before the divorce, her ex-husband's life are you cooking for him, and even underwear are you selected for him, which is always a good tie with the arrangements which piece suit, he always wore clothes folding ironing. Today, that road deep in your heart do not know who the Chuanghen ironing for you? May be familiar with the place it does not landscape, you said helpless smile.
8, I accompany you in Sanya, Sanya Bay, situated on the road at that resort vacation. Face spectacular ocean, your mood has been released, also appears calmer.
write to you, out of the rain harder and harder, the wind still brazenly hitting the windows and doors. This time you are still flying in the sky, right? Tomorrow is the Mid-Autumn Festival, family reunion or significance to you as important? You say you ignore the weight of life a lot, ignoring friends, ignoring the many details of life, have become accustomed to a person's travel. Especially when you feel tired think of his son, remember that help to see his son when his son's eyes, you piercing the same time, you will be more strengthened confidence in life. Your parents, siblings already are not used to that feminine, and life gives you many opportunities to hone.
Postscript: Last year, in Guangzhou, once again saw you, you are no longer long hair fluttering, and changed back to short hair. You tell me that you haircut or long hair is a gesture, a move to change the way of life, is a sign. Lost love, you grew a hair; the short hair cut, you just register a company. See you still so beautiful, just a little more haggard, you come and move and hurry. Today, you are still single, your heart closely concerned about the child, it is your heart's love, is your pain. You still struggle with him.
I know you are a strong woman, beautiful and strong you have to work and live. But I feel bad. Distressed at the same time, sincerely deeply bless you, my dear friend.相关的主题文章：
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Having worked overseas nearly 30 years, Chinese-born painter Jia Lu has made unique contributions in helping Western audiences understand more about the East through her canvases.
She was recently short-listed in the “Ten Most-focused Chinese in the World" by none other than the Global Times. The reason? “Her paintings fuse Chinese and Western elements, showing a modern China with beautiful colors," according to the panel.
“I have a deep sense that my mission to help the rest of the world understand China is not only an artistic goal but a personal responsibility," Lu says, when asked how she felt. “This award reminds me of the importance of that obligation."
Her father, Lu Enyi, was a famous painter who taught her to paint when she was very young. Like many painters of the time, she learned Chinese ink painting first, and was taught by master painter Fan Zeng.
But like many artists who traveled abroad in the 1980s, Lu felt lost in the collision of cultures, and turned to different ways of appreciating art.
When she left China for Canada in 1983, she quickly discovered that, for her new friends, without an understanding of Chinese culture and history, her art was “simply too alien to understand."
“In Chinese painting, we value the traditions passed from one generation to the next; for Westerners, true art is about originality and individual expression," Lu told the Global Times. “Ink painting explores the expressiveness of black ink and the bamboo brush; but to a Westerner, who has never held a brush before and is used to the color and richness of oil painting, my art seemed dull and lifeless."
Although her paintings sold well in the overseas Chinese community, to reach a larger audience, communicating essential concepts of traditional Asian culture to a Western audience was key.
Her solution? Borrow the techniques and expressive power of oil painting, with its illusionistic perspective and realism, and substitute Asian content. The method is known as “Jiechuan Chuhai", or “Crossing the sea in a borrowed boat."
“We have a unique, complex and rich culture. But we share [that] among ourselves, using a difficult written and spoken language, raising a high wall that excludes the rest of the world." Lu says. “By borrowing Western art history to communicate Eastern ideas, I have been able to tear down a small section of that wall."
Having grown up in a Confucian society that emphasized personal sacrifice, selflessness and hard work, Lu discovered her Western friends appreciated these values much more than their wealth and luxury.
Her painting was infused with Buddhism, an Eastern spirituality cherished by many Westerners.
Having first visited Dunhuang in 1980, spending several weeks copying its Buddhist art – some of the rarest early examples of Chinese figurative art – directly from the cave walls, Lu studied figure painting.
But it was not until she worked in Japan in the early 1990s that she began to explore their significance, finding their ideas represented what was most enduring and special about Chinese culture: compassion, mindfulness, a deep respect for learning and wisdom and a belief in the perfectibility of the human state.
Lu began to show her works in China: at the Shanghai International Art Fair, Art Beijing and CIGE expos, and found how “vibrant the Chinese art market had become in the so-many-years I’d been away, and how open it was to new ideas."
“I am both humbled and inspired that my work has been recognized in this way by the Global Times. It is an honor to be included among the other outstanding artists whom I have admired for so long," says Lu.
“But in the end, I think it is not important if I live or work in China or in the West, The important thing is to continue to paint for a global audience, to improve my own art as far as I am able, and to strive to be a better person."
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