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Reprinted from 112299038 at 14:14 on January 11 2011 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (0) Category: Personal Diary
all aspects of the family on children's healthy development and nurturing personality is very important. Parents should cultivate a sound personality as a family education center, to enhance the children's attention and the cultivation of good morals, family education,
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Parents, please note the following
Do not despise the child.
not intimidate children. Way of using intimidation to discipline their children, will be weakened his self-concept. If the parents said:
Do not bribe children. Some parents promised their children, if reading achievement is good, give to buy anything, this will stimulate the driving force, this is not a good idea. This act of bribery will lead the child outside the power shift from the inside. This is not conducive to the child establish a good learning purposes.
promised not to force children,
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Do not over-protect the supervision
children. Protection and supervision over the child will hurt the child's self-concept, reduced fostering children's autonomy. Because when parents monitor their children's behavior too much, in fact,
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Do not
children nagging. Too much will make kids feel nagging parents think he does not understand the ability of things, over time, the children will have unpleasant feeling disgust. In fact,
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Do not force children to immediately
blind obedience to others.
If you insist on child
aside he is doing something to listen to you to do anything else, his reaction will be very happy. Parents should warn children to him to do anything for a while, also allows the child to obey the order a little before the liberty to complain about, say: and blind obedience, to the bringing out of people independent and self-regulation,
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not condone child too. Children do not condone child benefit itself. Because children grow up sooner or later, to take to the society, some things will work at home, to the outside is hard to say. Therefore, the connivance of children deprived of their only child's potential development opportunities, prevented him become competent, independent, self-regulation people.
do not discipline their children with inconsistent rules. Some parents set up with their own joy, anger, arbitrary rules, and sometimes fined for the same act, sometimes charged with this matter. This makes children feel confused. Children need you use a consistent, credible and reliable rules to educate him.
Do not set the rules is not suitable for children age. If you want a two year old child behave the same as five years old child, only that he consciously incompetent. Because you expect to him is his age impossible to achieve the level of behavior,
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