Yu Dan: A good accompany have to be the circumstance, you and I have more love for all the world, I know more than ever parents upbringing of heavy, but know have their own circle of friends, but do know must go in the world numerous wonderful things. Your love I can not live up to ... ...
marriage is a beaker into the two people actually two active elements. If you do not recognize that they went looking for another element, it is likely, your hopes of finding a good element, but between the good elements did not respond to you, or even produce bad reactions ... ...
happy marriage The premise: there is a explicit understanding of their own
Hers: say elated family alike, what do you consider a cheerful marriage model can learn it?
Yu Dan: good marriage there is not fixed pattern. But before entering a good marriage, we must first understand themselves. To choose the most suitable their own, rather than the best. Each girl has a pretension,
nike shox monster, but the point is particularly important: your marriage is not the displays, you select this man is the father of your child, your parents, son, your lover, your hand, until old old of that person. These things are no decrees for others to read.
Hers: you can share your personal experience it?
Yu Dan: Marriage is a chemical reaction, no 1 +1 physical style of articulation. Marriage is a beaker into the two people actually two vigorous elements,
Nike Shox Sko, what unit you are, what you need and will have a positive element with combination reaction? If you do no recognize that they went looking because another element, it is probable, your wishes of detecting a agreeable element, but between the nice elements did no react to you, alternatively even generate bad reactions. It's favor buying clothes, girls are favor pretty vogue, do not be mad all the clothing you buy home? You will kas long assome clothes are not appropriate for you. Why can not this perception aboard marriage to?
Hers: Many people think that love and marriage are two different things, love to find a lover, married looking for a husband, you trust that marriage and love can be separated from it? Love Will not happy marriage?
Yu Dan: I love that he is a first person. Have someone to talk to me, that love to speak about for years, has black and blue, just looking for a suitable person married off. I naturally do not admit. If this is to enter a marriage, you have this man is extremely irresponsible. You just want to obtain,
nike dunk low, you took from entering the married infidelity is hard to say you will not fall in love with someone, your chat will bring out the message he knows, he did not love you. This is equivalent to the alternative of marriage when you have planted the seeds of calamity.
So then another, before entering the marriage, you must know who you are, what you most want, you can not let the marriage is full of legend. A good marriage which is romantic, but romantic love is the source. If a romantic marriage blocked the road, you will go outdoor to look in marriage. So I say choose what kind of marriage is happy, or choose what variety of love from the start. What kind of self you will meet, what kind of love.
marriage is the best integration of the circle of recognized each other, love each other's relatives, to accept each other's friends, because there is another, more love you all the world, more than ever you know the grace of parenting thick, more have to go in the world do know a lot of wonderful things ... ...
happy marriage of scale: to meet the other 3 evaluation
Hers: modern women in the workplace scale up beautiful, but constantly muddled on what is suitable for their marriage, and what the comparative measurable indicators?
Yu Dan: this is what I and my petticoat students were talking about. I always say, talking about marriage, determine the other three appearances of the evaluation:
1, you really have a tacit understanding on the spiritual life it? Values on the permission? His aura is Zhaode Zhu you so that you have a deep spiritual appendix? Love can not replace all these things, because you must for life. A special love of money and a love of money is not the people attach, two people will conflict with each other; a special friend and a particularly repulsive like social people who can not coordinate. The flash of light, the fit is very important.
2, ample that you can integrate the social life? Love namely two people, but wedding is a social team of two entities. Marriage is the best integration of the surround of acknowledged each other, love each other's relatives, apt accept every other's friends, for there is another, more love you always the earth, extra than ever you know the grace of parenting thick, likewise know to manipulate own circle of friends, merely have to go in the earth do know a lot of excellent things. This acceptance will make you feel extra roots, in increase to love, there is bounty.
3, your ######ual relationship harmony? This is a very important indicator. The enthusiasm between men and women, depending on the degree of integration between the body. If your body is not understanding,
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- these three indicators by the time there is a less than 60 minutes, I can not feel rushed into marriage.
Hers: There is also a very renowned contention is that a good marriage need to
Yu Dan: I do not elect the door first, but two people to elect the values of understanding, and values can be earned in the manner of training. Good match between two people is more important than values, because each person is not convict in the home, you want to enter the community, going to work. My husband and I
two family context is particularly different. My father was one mastermind, cultural and historical research for many years busy in the go, I was behind to antique poetry since infancy growing up, was in intensive concern. And my father was an mediocre operator, the family had 4 sons, can be said that a particularly rowdy life. But I like my grandma said a word: My husband is home, the eldest of three brothers listened him, so my husband habitually willing to take responsibility. My husband and marriage, while not married, but just to the symmetrical and complementary.
into the marriage, in fact, the premier two people are naught more than the second are the rich world. Because nothing is equal, before the bills have been torn to pieces all; wealthy for the world is because they have love, because the two men would spend a lifetime ... ...
the elements of a happy marriage: Equality & Inclusive Growth &
Hers: a lot of good women in the marriage will complain, I thought I married a detriment, you feel where their mistakes?
Yu Dan: in marriage, can not take the age, status that matter. In the starting of marriage, two people will be natty woman on the status of total equivalence before the bills are all torn, no loss, no less. You are 10 years younger than him, you young and beautiful, you're better than his large reputation, your money than his ... This can not be high, full of loath causes.
known to have such a story: Britain's Queen Elizabeth to partake in distraction home late and found the bedroom door tightly closed. Door to door stood the Queen, her husband asked: She knocked, queried her husband, the Queen replied: Queen Elizabeth appeared to be aware of what, eventually, she replied:
- This anecdote tells us, there is no eligible woman in love in front of domineering. Into the marriage, the first two are nothing more than the second are the rich world. Because nothing is equal, all bills have been torn to pieces, rich with love than the world because, as the two men would spend a lifetime.
Hers: tolerance is undoubtedly required for a happy marriage arrows, specifically, how to interpret it?
to Dan: You have a moderate gloss of deportment, the atmosphere that you are a woman; your heart there is a large fathom, that you are a happy woman.
Hers: Does this mean that women have to a large amplitude, to alteration yourself?
Yu Dan: A lot is no conflict between the conception, inclusive does not mean meekness and connivance. To the full face in front of people, two people in private areas Shique to open. I recommend there are problems in the bedroom may wish to talk,
nike shox oz dame, could not agree on what body language can also have intimate look by what will have passed, do not upgrade to the point of the Cold War. Marriage which need love, need knowledge.
modern society, some women view marriage the biggest fables is that they refuse to grow, that men care for a woman is a matter of way, is constrained at conscience and responsibility. The responsibility of marriage and conscience is naturally very major, but its role can not be overstated. The conservation of marriage a woman can not fair rely on conscience and liability, you have to have their own beauty, so that their marriage has been a living, not dying to become a convention.
Hers: the growth of women in marriage, happy marriage, another important element of it?
Yu Dan: I think the most beautiful things in this world is the growth of a people life needs to grow, the marriage of two people need to grow, which means that a person can enjoy themselves without terror of aging, because she is all growing, period she has to contend with a weapon, she has trust, she saw took his own life came out.
a marriage growing, that is, your marriage, you not have to feel like a romantic lover. Pressure can not be lost because of a busy and two people's private time, to resort to accidental, nothing to talk to friends, talk about the world, reckon evaluation encounters things and talk about kid and the elderly, such communication, make your sensibilities has been very fit.
this person as a living brain to be reasonable, ought be very responsible, the family will be running very smoothly; as the center of the living, we must make the home a romantic, childish, have fun, have a nightmare. This is a balanced combination of ... ...
the makeup of a happy marriage: happy marriage conflict?
Yu Dan: Woman with the independence that she has a very complete world of its own, and then to marriage and love she needs merely be got without the need for mash. She can be creative, can influence a new life, she can pleasure and enjoyment, but she told her husband not a Ku Gualian child that I was to you, you must give me anything. So I think that independence does not collide with a happy marriage, will accommodate neutral woman, the more independent the less inclusive, because she felt she owed her husband.
Hers: you have two people to penetrate how the division of family roles?
Yu Dan: in marriage there, the two roles in the family there will be a casual division. A good marriage is balanced, which requires a person as a As pate of the person to live a rational, to take the family with money, support the elderly, children's education, etc., this person should be very responsible, the family will be running very smoothly; as the heart of the living, we must make home, a romantic, a naive, have fun, have a dream. Called a fly, a do not fly, is a balanced portfolio.
I do not fly often have some mind of the end of July I had intended, and her husband, her daughter went to Japan on vacation, her husband now take into account such factors as the spread of influenza, and resolutely to the rejected. I will look depressed, but I would quarrel with him. I say we go in Japan, went to Dalian, it is the shore ah! The suggestion preferred by her husband. This is the heart and brain of game theory. He felt that I too do not fly, carrying the child to Mount Everest things will dry out, but if not I, that we are not go even in Dalian, we will spend a summer nest in the home, bored, fight, nothing worth saying. Therefore,
nike shox r2, a good marriage is like this, yearned for a compromise brain, brain-heart outrageous dream has been accommodating, everything agreeable.
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