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写下这个题目,是有感于最近看到的一位读者博客中朋友的博文,这位朋友叫辉元,她说她最爱玫瑰,我宁愿称呼 她为玫瑰。看过她的博文的人,也许会有和我相似的感觉,或有更深刻的感受,我不能自如地运用语言将自己表达 得淋漓尽致,一来是由于语言水平万分有限,二来是由于没有来得及仔细拜读她空间内更多的文章,因此,只能以 有限的字句来记载我的这一感动,倘若认真读了她的全部博文,我想会有更深层次的感触和对她更深的了解,那个 时候的感觉可能会更贴切,而此刻,我只能如实记载我此时的心情。
long time no impulse to write articles, but today they want to talk about. Because we wanted to commemorate a loved one. Today I went to a funeral parlor off the
a loved one, my mother's Sister, my four-aunt. It was very warm to the old lady who said, \
fact she was 57 years old. She had cancer is second only to the king, the second largest \From diagnosis, to leave this world only a month
time. In this month's time,
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finally to despair.
hero from the story, or let me talk about it when I was younger,
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true story of the love story, the story is very ordinary, but it is true. This is my own ears, eyes witness.
actress [aunt] young mountains to the countryside (we should have a generation that lived through the period) met actor [Uncle],
uncle several years younger than my aunt, that's such a girl, little man, because the good aunt, and uncle who touched the hearts of passion.
married they have children, is my cousin. Can not say very happy, but also a happy family of three, do not know is not
is God deliberately and the family joke, my aunt had a skin disease called psoriasis clinical medicine, we generally like a cow
psoriasis. Lethal disease, but it is torture,
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governance. Very painful. I can remember, my aunt is so year after year, back and forth, good and disease. Which has been around to take care of Aunt
mother's uncle, never had any complaints, has been the best of its (patience), because in order to take good care of his aunt and uncle basically
what their hobbies, and if the loyalty of love, commitment, and I believe this man in this society is basically no,
Basically
Why not? Because to me there is one, until the aunt's (left) and uncle were always stood by her side, no
What
vigorous, love-hate relationship, but flat Fanfan, because we are ordinary human being.
29-year-old cousin, aunt, uncle feelings of love should be 30 plus years, cousin, aunt of the skin is obtained when 3 years old,
Let us count
30 years now, 30 years! Is there any man can do this to his wife stubbornly persists. I'm not saying that all men
are Boqingguayi, but the premise is that my aunt had a skin disease, and worse year after year. To this last ten years, the aunt spleen
gas becomes very weird uncle often lost his temper, I say a little story, it was learned from another cousin's, aunt once lived
hospital in the morning to eat breakfast, my aunt called the uncle to buy breakfast, my aunt says to eat lightly, fried rice uncle bought back, my aunt saw to upset
to say: you do not know Well I do not like to eat? ,,,, Just shout from the uncle, the uncle is very angry about put the rice
trash box, turned left, and aunt felt had been wronged, crying. But a few ten minutes, uncle Sweating came back and hand
in holding a bowl of soup noodles. . . . . . . . . This is just the tip of the iceberg They life.
As I grew older, I sometimes ask uncle why he can do that no one should have no temper, sage
also angry ah. Moreover, we ordinary people. Uncle answer is very simple, he said: Are you preoccupied with a woman? And
She also disease. More than a simple answer ah! Some may ask, your uncle certainly no money, \
bad for the money, \
life is very thrifty mother and uncle have nothing bad habits, do not smoke do not gamble do not visit a prostitute. In my eyes, in addition to uncle does not like to talk, but is a very
good man. Does not seem to like to talk is not a problem, right? This is a personal character, and not a defect.
last days in the aunt and uncle aunt did not leave a step, even the night at the hospital, let alone the rest, as uncle
do not like to speak with the hospital is looking for my acquaintance, uncle will come to me to ask this from time to time to ask that too. I discovered that this man
really good with words. Since the beginning has no way to accept the aunt uncle had pancreatic cancer, saying that is transferred, but turn to. Later
for surgery, the surgical removal of cancer, no way, the uncle said most often is \\
day is to let her suffer, she has not finished by the crime, so be over, she would go, \
times tears I do not remember, just remember every time I see, the heart will be sad for a moment, to try to comfort him, but feel that everything is
pale, because we all know, the outcome can not be changed. For it is the shortest life expectancy of pancreatic cancer, this is not the most important,
because after surgery, the aunt of the skin plus can not heal the wound caused diabetes, exacerbated her condition deteriorated. The doctor said according to situation
should not exceed one month, we are stupid. Not to say that up to half a year living thing? How about five months less, because the disease is worse
ah, God has not given the direction we expect.
doctors recommend aunt should tell the truth, tell her own condition, but very firmly uncle, aunt not to know their own
illness. I can not understand the beginning, people have to be, there is a need without telling her? In the end even he is not know how to die, it will
will not be poor? Then I realized, why do uncle, aunt because he was deeply in love, do not want your aunt was the last to know
cancer, fear of Aunt sad. By uncle later said, you aunt hard lifetime, what did not enjoy the blessing and let her
go secure in it. At 19:00 on September 23, 2009, aunt's heart stopped beating. This warm and kindly treat the \
away. Take the time to look very calm, like a \I saw the uncle's tears have been falling clothes in the chest.
2009 年 9 月 26 日 上午 十点半, friends and relatives at the funeral home held a farewell for the aunt, the wall hanging from a challenge by the uncle
election for a long time aunt smiling photo, I still remember it was four years ago cousin birth a child in my house when according to the New Year, when the mind
still vivid memory. . . . I said to myself, this can not cry, to smile, give Aunt final journey. Wait until the funeral time
body against the aunt uncle
talking. Also hear first what to say, wow the second gave the uncle cried,
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sound overshadowed uncle's voice, I'd like to hear the lifetime of the man to take care of his aunt would say something today, but still not able to listen to
see. Then I called out to relatives, I told uncle said, your own aunt, the last to say a few private messages with it. . . . Uncle silently
nodded, I turned out. . . I think of a word,
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around is laughing, so when this man passed away, he was glad to go, and the people around him away he was crying, \
reincarnation ah! ! ! ! ! ! !
uncle that age they are relatively shy, unlike what our generation love, ah, like ah. Talks about all day, but that
on behalf of the people gave me a lot. . . . . The stigma is difficult to forget,,,, that is, in fact, waiting quietly beside their loved ones, do not
too many words,,,, ,,,,, so slowly slowly. . . . . . Slowly grow old together. . . That is happiness